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Thank you sweetie. When he unblocks me, I will try me best to talk to him again.
Thank you for everyones replies infact
To you lot, he appears the sarky, jokey guy but what you didn't know is that he had been sending me pms and coming on threads making insutling remakrs and personal comemnts all day.
His reply on this thread wasn't anything to do with the issue, but to deliberately have a go at me after my post.
Then he comes off the innocent as I have go back.
I'm sorry this happened.
MrG, you have been coming to threads I have for sometime now, just to have a go, your as bad kermit.
If kermit wants to lie then fine, if you wanna belive him then fine. Though remember that the next time you guys are in the P&G baord, saying how blair/bush etc etc lied.
anyway, hope things get sorted cruel, but really, if she is ok with it and that then its over really. If he slept with her then yo could carry it on but its all done now, past is past and such.
Talk to him about it but don't be acusing, that might help.
pointless.
You have been warned once, I doubt you want to be again.
Now please stop carrrying on this stupid shit with me, your spoiling Cruel's thread. I don't want to carry this on so please cease and lets stick to the topic of the thread.
I don't mind a good spanking from a sexy mod now again! Weren't you warned aswell?!
Nope!!! :hyper:
Ohhh aren't we clever! As entertaining as i find your posts, i supposed i'd better put you on block now like Kermit - for both our sakes.....
you can do what you want, but it really doesn't t ake that much effort to not insult someone for no reason, make personal remarks, be abusive or try and bait someone.
its very simple really.
Honestly ... you've been here long enough to know if you say something stupid you'll get a sarcy reply.
Anyway, yeah its a bit of a shitty thing to do. However you said he's not very experienced with girls, perhaps he doesn't really know any better? It might sound stupid but you'd be suprised. Maybe you should explain that that kind of thing is not on and he can't behave that way to your mates.
I think you have a point in your advice to Cruel tho.
Well I think you are over re-acting. Unles the girl was passed out she had the opportunity to say no. If I'm smashed out of my face I don't snog a guy because I don't want to, no matter how much I drink, so I don't buy the excuse that girls give that they couldn't say no because they were drunk.
Just to make it clear, yes you have been warned, as have other people involved in this situation.
On topic, he was unacceptable, just try and speak to him, I reckon he's realised he was in the wrong.
I think he knows he was wrong to do it, which is why he's being aggressive and hiding, but I don't think its crime of the century. He's taken advantage, and you know he can't be trusted with female drunk friends now, but its something a lot of young men do because they end up thinking with their willies.
i know it doesn't excuse him, but you have to realise that when you get drunk people may try and take advantage of you.
I never said it was a crime. I was just annoyed how he didn't take proper care for my friend as she clearly wasn't thinking straight as she was too drunk.
I'm aware that alot men do this, etc, etc. I just expected more from my friend, that's all. If he liked the girl, he should have treated her with more respect, not grope her + see what else he good get out of her while she could just about hold her head up, like she was some random tart.
Maybe, I am. I would like to talk to him today and explain why his behaviour annoyed me. But I don't want to fall out completely with him.
My friend Louise was clearly too drunk to think straight. When you're drunk, you tend to do things, you wouldn't normally do when you are sober. And she was that drunk, she did have to go home early due to her being very unstable and was sick.
If they had just snogged, I would not have been as upset. Just the way he had his hands all over her in a sleazy way. Treating her as an easy cop off. And this is while he is sober! I felt, I lost his respect in treating my friend like that as he was putting his own needs first.
you're right, he was out of order - and it's disrespectful to do that to someone while they're under the influence. maybe he doesn't like her that much afterall.