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But this appeared the right forum. Ok, so currently I have what could be considered emo hair, and I don't really think it suits my face or the structure of my hair for that matter.
I would be very greatful if you could suggest any "hairstyle" that would suit me better than this emo stuff because currently only the, well, to put it planly, ugly girls or sluts find me attractive and any decent looking female who's not a slut, ignores me.
There are pictures of me in this thread http://vbulletin.thesite.org.uk/showthread.php?t=92520
Thanks,
burninginme
I would be very greatful if you could suggest any "hairstyle" that would suit me better than this emo stuff because currently only the, well, to put it planly, ugly girls or sluts find me attractive and any decent looking female who's not a slut, ignores me.
There are pictures of me in this thread http://vbulletin.thesite.org.uk/showthread.php?t=92520
Thanks,
burninginme
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to put it planly, ugly girls or sluts find me attractive and any decent looking female who's not a slut, ignores me.
God forbid the ugly slutty people.
And theres not a man out there who doesn't look good with a good ol razor set at 1 inch or smaller.
You have one of the best hair styles on this board :flirt:
I'm just getting rather bored and fustrated with the ugly sluts and wish to set my sights higher.
Think about it...
best bet is to go to a hairdresser and ask them
I have sympathy with that.
Face of yours.
Right on.
although to be fair it does need changing
Seriously though, I think Ballerina has got the right idea.
Just thought id tell you.
[/chriss-kun]
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Nah, really get to a hair dressers and stop fretting, you're 14 FFS.
Why would Rainbow be jealous of that? Why would anyone be jealous of that.
Oh lord.
The best you can do for now is change your attitude, you never know, it might do wonders for you...
Get a haircut.
Get a decent face wash.
Moisturise.
Get daddy to teach you how to shave properly.
Learn how to treat women as people.
Start worrying about women when your balls have dropped.
That enough advice for starters?
Wee bit insensitive, perhaps?
Anyone who hides behind their hair that much and posts about insecurity about their appearance, in whatever form, isn't exactly going to be feeling any better about themselves when people talk to them like that. Does nobody else here remember what it was like to be 14 and awkward and uncomfortable? Way to go with upping his self-esteem.
As Ballerina said, maybe pop down to the hairdressers and ask them what they think. They can look at your face shape and tell yo what kind of cuts would look good. Or if you have an idea of how you'd like to look (how YOU'D like to look, that is, not how you think girls would like you to look) then try and find it in a magazine and take that with you. The hairdresser can then adapt that kind of look to suit your face shape.
Remember, though, how you look is all about you. People are attracted to all kinds of different 'types'; and the chances are the type of girl you'd like is also the type that would like you. Don't let her walk past you thinking you're somebody else, just because you're trying to be someone you're not.
The second "paragraph" is a quotation of the OP though.
Are you actually telling us off now? 99% of his thread is utter bollocks. He usually has no respect for other people. Take a look at other threads he has started.
Burning, ask us again when you've changed your attitude. Calling girls sluts will get you nowhere.
All you have to do is be yourself. If you're someone else, then it won't work. You can always try being more romantic and so on but you can never change yourself. Try establishing some contact with the sensitive side and not the other side you've recently showed us.
both as urgent as each other, imo!
if you take nothing else away from this silly thread, young man, take this: men do NOT look good with mid-length hair. ever.
I whole heartedlycantspell agree. With both.
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