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Whats more important to you - Sex or Love?
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So after years of hearing stories from friends and knowing people that have been in so called loving relationships, they still cheat. I have read and just recently read on a webiste a plce for confession and this site and there are more like it that have countles snumbers of confessions form women and men about their little sex secrets.
What amazes me is ho wmany people cheat. They have a bf or gf, a wife or husband, even newlyweds and they cheat. There ar eno holds barred. They will go with their partners friends, fatehrs, mother, Anyone.
Why? The sex. The sex was too good to tunr down, the woman was too hot, the guy was too hung, they tsarted feeling them up and it just carried on. They got horny and just did it.
Now it seem speople here on this site like their sex, who doesn't right? But at what cost? I mean what is more important? Sex or love?
What amazes me is ho wmany people cheat. They have a bf or gf, a wife or husband, even newlyweds and they cheat. There ar eno holds barred. They will go with their partners friends, fatehrs, mother, Anyone.
Why? The sex. The sex was too good to tunr down, the woman was too hot, the guy was too hung, they tsarted feeling them up and it just carried on. They got horny and just did it.
Now it seem speople here on this site like their sex, who doesn't right? But at what cost? I mean what is more important? Sex or love?
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Love.
We're not the people you're describing.
It isn't necessarily an either/or situation.
For me personally, sex is useless without an emotional attachment. So, Love.
Ilora x
My mum and dad got divorced because my mum had an affair and now she is supposed to be happily married to my stepdad (not the guy she was having an affair with) but I know that she's having another affair and it hurts me so much. My Uncle also got divorced because he caught his wife (was my aunty) in bed with their next door neighbour. I have seen how much affairs hurt people and how I have been (am being) affected by them and so I could never do it. People may have their reasons for having affairs but then people who murder have their reasons and it doesn't make it any better. Maybe there are people reading this who have had or are having an affair and can justify it but I can't see any good in it.
omg your user name! My name is Sarah and I get called a little midget, lol
Lol! :hyper:
Why hello! :wave:
Hey
i need BOTH
Long term-love.
I shan't sleep with my mother
I'm in love with my mom. I don't think you can decipher the difference just by adding "in"
But the previous comment was only in a joking manner
Fucking, sex with someone you love, sex with some you luv, loving the person your fucking.....
Theres so many different aspects, situations and emotions in this that your just being too simplistic if you say either/or to be honest.
sidenote: i could never cheat, i couldn't face the person i cheated on ever again if i did and i wouldn't doubt that i would kill myself. because if i did cheat i would feel as though i had thrown away everything i had worked for. and besides, i saved my girlfriend from a bad homelife. she used to cut and was depressed but i made her happy. and that would be the most terrible thing to do to her and would justify my suicide if i did cheat.
Surely if you really love someone, then you wouldn't cheat as there would be no need to? And if you don't want to hurt someone then cheating is one of the worst ways to hurt them?
I think that comes across as what I'm trying to say.