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Because there is such a stigma attached to the idea of straight blokes doing it. Unfortunately I battle my typical male ego every living moment of the day, and taking anything up the poo pipe really does not appeal to me - it just seems so 'wrong'.
Yes it does!
You asked me why I admire them - and I told you!
My male ego does not allow me to
You need to be gentle, but it is very nice to use things in and around the bum. If you're doing it right, and you are aroused, it shouldn't hurt.
To me there is something very fundamentally flawed about doing it.
Why?
Are you scared it will make you gay?
If you don't want to do it then fine, your arsehole, your choice. I just find the view that it is your "male ego" that stops you doing it very bizarre.
If you were comfortable with your maleness you wouldn't care about it for that reason. Liking anal play doesn't make you gay, after all.
Do you think only gay people like anal play? Do you think anal play diminshes masculinity? If so, why so?
The last time I checked, being attracted to your own sex alone is what makes somebody gay, not whether the enjoy having an object rectally inserted.
It's because I prefer being the more dominant party (or the 'giver') whereas being the 'reciever' feels, to me, to be a little too submissive for my liking.
Yes, I know this. No idea about whether my 'maleness' (whatever that means) is the issue.
No. I enjoy being the giver if I'm with a woman.
Nope.
As I said, being the reciever seems a bit too 'submissive'.
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I am thinking though that it must have been pretty damn forceful anal sex to tear through the rectal AND vaginal wall, and i also disagree that the pleasure from it comes from pain and just enjoying the pain. If anal sex hurts, then STOP. That means it is damaging you. It shouldnt hurt at all, and if you are careful and respectful, then it shouldnt be much more dangerous than vaginal sex.
Maybe he means that he feels he is not gay because he does not feel any emotional connection to men ... ? Prisoners, for example, may not be gay yet just use men as a vehicle for relieving themselves sexually ... but go back to women once they are released - a kind of higher form of masturbation perhaps.
You do know your slowly taking away the enjoyment of something AMAZING!
No, no I wasn't. I was showing the one celled idiot what a misinformed moron he was.
And was it really necessary to bring up a thread this old to make a comment like that?
I shall never get over it, hahahahaha :rolleyes: Though was I ever on it?
In that case i offer my most profound apologies
Accepted.
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surely its living on borrowed time by now.