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That's fine, if you think its gross and wrong then you won't enjoy it because you won't relax and enjoy the sensation.
It is actually very pleasurable if done properly, with care and control.
I think it does show a level of repression to go "eww, bum = gross", especially when the same people are so keen to give oral sex to men, which is just the same really.
If the bum is clean there is no danger. And if the people bathe properly it will be clean.
I just think its a bit sad that people are put off solely because "eww, bum = gross".
I'm not sure how I feel about anal sex, as I'm still expolring with my bf what I enjoy sexually. If he wanted to try it, I would not mind, as I know that if I did not like it he would stop. As we have a great repect for each other and our feelings.
I think thats very fair! Trouble is my bloke likes having a small finger/his vibe I got him so I think he thinks it feels the same for girls.
you know he also said he'd make me come doing me that way-er? I don't bloody come all the time he does it "normally" so how am I gonna come when he is doing that and I am far to uptight worrying and not enjoying it. still I know I can say no and he will respect my choice. i don't liker it with him, the other two were smaller sized so didn't hurt so much!
if it hurts, you havent relaxed enough. Relaxing in the right way doesnt always come naturally to most people and could take practice and perserverance, but you have to want to, and a lot of people just dont really want to (which of course is absolutely fine) If you get it right though and both know what youre doing then it can be absolutely amazing and even better than normal sex.
There is something called the pink sock. Its where you have anal sex and then just as the guy is about to cum, he punches the girl hard in the back of head and pulls out really fast, you are supposed to be able to pull the ass lining out or something and it resembles a pink sock coming out of her ass. I have't seen pics of that just a cartoon representation. I have to say I would never do that but maybe thats what an ass falling out looks like??
I've never had anal sex, and I'm not going to ask for it, but if my current boyfriend wanted to then I wouldn't say no as long as he took it slowly. My ex boyfriend used to try and push me into it, constantly asking even after i'd said no 100s of times. Once or twice he had a finger up there, but I can't say I got any pleasure from it, though perhaps that was just because I wasn't particularly willing. I'm not sure what changed, but now I'd be a lot more open to it.
I've never tried anal sex, though my girlfriend has and recently had a play in that area and I kinda liked it, and she has intimated going further, to which I have said I'm not sure.
As for the strap ons, reminds me a bit too much of the first series of 'shameless'!! Not sure if anyone has seen it. I'll see how it goes!
sauce xxx
You have to really trust the person though, as it is a bit more dangerous, rude, and a lot more intimate.
Let us know when you have tried it out
yes, and think about what comes out near where you have sex with a girl!
and yes, i've tried it..twice. but unfortunately it hurt a tremendous amount both times so couldn't do it for long!
Well, that's a fairly normal reaction isn't it? Shit isn't nice.
We even have hot baths and soap up here now though.
All the mod cons.
Funny. Normal sex can be unhygienic also, and STD's are an issue there as well. So, no differences so far.
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Anyway. I like a spot of uphill gardening.