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but if others do it and they are happy to do it, then fair play to them!
Maybe this is why so many threads get started on does size matter?
Ilora x
Im not shallow, but I do like good sex.
I also like to tease n build it up for a little too, makes the experience so much better!
Each to their own though, I make no judgements.
My ex boyfriend we were together 9ish months or something like that before we did it, due to the fact we were only 15, and my current boyfriend was about a month and half but that was really down to oppurtunity. I didn't really know him well enough at the very start to feel like i wanted to sleep with him.
I wouldnt date someone i didnt want to sleep with.
I dont understand.
It's not that i didn't want too, just not untill i was sure about him as a person on a whole relationship thing, do we get on are we compatible blah blah etc tec. I just didn't want to get that involved untill i knew him better, i still fancied him and we would kiss and what not but at the beging we were like brand new strangers to one another.
i wouldn't
if a guy wanted to he probably would just be after a quick shag
i wouldn't respect myself
how do you explain how people have sex on a first date and then go on to have long term relationships?
Exactly, within 4 hours of meeting my guy we had sex. I spent the weekend with him and a while later we're enganged.
Sometimes sex is just sex. It's an enjoyable activity that 2 or more people partake in. (with the exception of younguns) I never saw why sex was such a big deal.
That's their choice. Maybe it would be different if it was someone I'd known for years, but I don't know...
I want to marry you.
I nearly had a one night stand but couldn't go through with it in the end. Luckily he wasn't the violent type. I wouldn't lose respect for a person. Although it isn't exactly my personal choice. I would question his motives if he hassled me for sex on the first date or any date.
The first, we went on to have a 6 month relationship. He didnt seem to have much respect for me. Whether thats coz he was an immature prat or coz of me, i dont know, nor do i care.
The 2nd time was 2 1/2 years ago and we're still together.
Would i again? i really dont know as i dont intend to be with anybody else. Ive found my man.
I dont think my fella lost any respect for me. Out situation was difficult and it started as just sex really, then developed from there. I wouldnt change anything about how it started or progressed.
Ive been offered it when on a '1st date' so yeah i wouldnt.
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Mate, if there's a sexy lady offering it up, you should never pass up the chance.
He never said she was sexy She could have been a total sow.
Why would you go out with her int the first place then?