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Unusual Request?
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Hi everyone.Right,ok,this is a bit embarassing to write about,but basically I’ve had a bit of an unusual request from my boyfriend.He actually wants me to shave my vagina completely for him! He says he wants it this way as he prefers it for oral sex.First,do you think its unusual for a guy to want his girl to look this way(pre-pubescent?!!) And,if I do go ahead and do it for him,what’s the best way to go about it,as the thought of using a razor down there is worrying me a bit! :eek: Thanks
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I really doubt that it is a case of him wanting you to look pre-pubescent, many guys (including myself) just find it more attractive, in the same way many girls don't like guys to have a hairy chest and will ask them to get rid of it. And, as you boyfriend says, it is much much nicer to give oral when there is less, or no hair there.
As for the how to do it part, I'll leave that to someone else
Don't really know, just one of those things, like why I prefer tall girls to shorter ones, and why I prefer bloneds to brunets, just personal taste I guess.
Yes, I'd agree with you in terms of the sexualisation of young people. There is a worrying trend toward this, but I think this isn't related to womens body hair (not in my eyes at least).
I don't see that my preference for my girlfriend to have no hair has anything to do with her looking younger. I think it is very obvious from the rest of her that she is far from being 'young'. I would be worried if I saw the removal of her hair as being something that made her look like a pre-pubescent.
What about girls who do it for themselves because they like it? Is it subconciously an effort to make themselves look younger? - and if they see it this way then surely they are trying to make themselves look pre-pubescent? Why would anyone do this? - personally I think they don't, it's just a preference that has nothing to do with percieved age.
i personally would suggest booking in for a wax Jemz, rather than using a razor down there, i find shaving uncomfortable when it starts to grow back, but thats a personal thing and wouldn't necessarily mean that you would. Also, if your mans request makes you uncomfortable in any way, don't do it, you have to be comfortable first and foremost.
I always shave as its alot cleaner for me to manage during periods and my BF loves my shaved pussy.. I must admit i prefer a man to trim down there too.
How to shave:
You need a mirror to see what ur doin, trim the hair with a hair trimmer (cheap off Argos catalogue) these are good as they will not cut skin.
You can leave it like that trimmed, or if you want it really smooth then you can further smear hair remover moussse (immac) and then gently scrub it off in the bath, (watchout for skin irritation and make sure you do not exceed the application time, 10 mins max) I use immac as the regrowth does not itch. Do not shave as you will be itching like a madwoman, not good in public situations.
If you are brave you could have yourself a brazillian at a salon... i dont have the guts for that.
Exfoliate and watch out for ingrown hairs.
have fun!
Thanks for the advice so far! I think I'll go with this suggestion,as I am definitely NOT brave enough to have a Brazilian at a salon! How can anybody find the nerve to do that?
So fashions are bordering on peadophilic? Any examples?
Some folk are a bit too quick to jump into conclusions.
More importantly, what do you want?
Anyone else wondering how one shaves a vagina? You'd have to be dextrous to get a Mach 3 up there.
If you are only doing this to please your bf maybe its not the right thing, do it because you want to, your the one thats going to live with it like that day in day out so if you want it go for it lass!
Does he mean he wants you to do it as a treat, or does he expect you to keep it like that constantly, because its pretty high maintenance, and needs to be done every day or else it goes stubbly.
Well,I can't say it's something I've thought about doing before,but I'd like to think I am open minded when it comes to sex stuff,or I at least try to be-I'm a bit shy about this stuff sometimes! And I'd also like to please my boyfriend.
How is it so? If I have a skin head and have a few tattoos, does that mean I could possible be a Nazi/gay/football hooligan? Because someone likes a girl with either little or no hair down there, it doesn't in any way suggest any kind of paedophilic tendencies.
Would it have to be done every day even if its waxed?
Hair. Removing. Cream.... :thumb:
Ilora x
Chemical. Burns.
thats what happened last time i tried H.R.C on my sensitive parts. :no:
I found the more i did it the less sensitive the skin became so i don't really get a shaving rash or anything now.
Also if you don't want to take it all off, alot of women just do around the edges or leave a little tidy strip there so it's not completley 'bald'. It's up too you what ever you feel comfortable with.
Yep! Hair clippers,then hair removing cream,that's what it's gonna be for me! :thumb: Thanks to everyone who's replied :yes: Actually,come to think of it my brother's got some hair clippers,would it be ok to borrow them do you think??
Ilora x
Hows that unusual? I did mine for my man last week and he loved it! Don't shave though, you'll only end up with itchy red bumps, use bikini hair remover instead.. Also get him to return the favour! After all it's no fun for us girls to get pubes between our teeth now is it?
1. I don't want to get into a 'who's right' argument (even though it's obviously me) but to each his own - pubic hair isn't exactly a defining characteristic.
2. Unless your boyfriend is a Gary Glitter wannabe, he's not asking you to do it because it'll make you look younger - generally because it looks neater.
3. Like it or not, oral sex from the guy's point of view is a hell of a lot easier. Firstly, you can see what you're doing, thus improving your aim and hopefully, pleasure for the recipient. And secondly, I don't want a mouthful of hair when I go down on my lady - do/would you?
Since you've never done it you probably dont know just how sensitive your skin is down there. When I shaved I got razor burn no matter what I did and how well I took care of it. Just like rainbow says, creams burn, and I got burned and it itched and hurt and all that fun. Waxing stings, but barely. And it lasts alot longer, doesn't itch when it grows back and you are much less likely to have a reaction to it.
And be very glad that you get it. I wax and do everything to make him happy but I havn't gotten a mouth there in five months. I can count on two fingers how many times hes done it, no matter how much I beg and plead and ask very nicely. And god knows I return the favor, at least once a day, but nooo. Fucking Bastard. Be very glad. I'm so jelous.
And I prefer it because when we have oral the hairs dont tickle my face. I enjoy going down on her but its annoying when you have to stop to itch, and she also asks me to trim my hairs too, because its helps her to cum when shes on top or something