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Unusual Request?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi everyone.Right,ok,this is a bit embarassing to write about,but basically I’ve had a bit of an unusual request from my boyfriend.He actually wants me to shave my vagina completely for him! :blush: He says he wants it this way as he prefers it for oral sex.First,do you think its unusual for a guy to want his girl to look this way(pre-pubescent?!!) :D And,if I do go ahead and do it for him,what’s the best way to go about it,as the thought of using a razor down there is worrying me a bit! :eek: Thanks
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    a LOT of guys like their girlfriends to be shaved, so no, this is not an unusual request form him.

    I really doubt that it is a case of him wanting you to look pre-pubescent, many guys (including myself) just find it more attractive, in the same way many girls don't like guys to have a hairy chest and will ask them to get rid of it. And, as you boyfriend says, it is much much nicer to give oral when there is less, or no hair there.

    As for the how to do it part, I'll leave that to someone else ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not picking on you here, but why do you find it more attractive?

    Don't really know, just one of those things, like why I prefer tall girls to shorter ones, and why I prefer bloneds to brunets, just personal taste I guess.
    Our society is obsessed with the idea of youth to a point where I do believe it is bordering on paedophilic sometimes, and this is reflected in fashions in clothing and general appearance, body hair included.

    Yes, I'd agree with you in terms of the sexualisation of young people. There is a worrying trend toward this, but I think this isn't related to womens body hair (not in my eyes at least).

    I don't see that my preference for my girlfriend to have no hair has anything to do with her looking younger. I think it is very obvious from the rest of her that she is far from being 'young'. I would be worried if I saw the removal of her hair as being something that made her look like a pre-pubescent.

    What about girls who do it for themselves because they like it? Is it subconciously an effort to make themselves look younger? - and if they see it this way then surely they are trying to make themselves look pre-pubescent? Why would anyone do this? - personally I think they don't, it's just a preference that has nothing to do with percieved age.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i can understand from the oral sex point of view i guess, but its easy enough to stay tidy down there without resorting to everything coming off.

    i personally would suggest booking in for a wax Jemz, rather than using a razor down there, i find shaving uncomfortable when it starts to grow back, but thats a personal thing and wouldn't necessarily mean that you would. Also, if your mans request makes you uncomfortable in any way, don't do it, you have to be comfortable first and foremost.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its not unusual for a guy to want u to b shaven. its alot cleaner for them and for you too, and that makes them more confident to going down on u. Men love to look at you, you can see everything and that is a big turn on for them. prob a bit of porno imagery thing going on too.
    I always shave as its alot cleaner for me to manage during periods and my BF loves my shaved pussy.. I must admit i prefer a man to trim down there too.

    How to shave:
    You need a mirror to see what ur doin, trim the hair with a hair trimmer (cheap off Argos catalogue) these are good as they will not cut skin.
    You can leave it like that trimmed, or if you want it really smooth then you can further smear hair remover moussse (immac) and then gently scrub it off in the bath, (watchout for skin irritation and make sure you do not exceed the application time, 10 mins max) I use immac as the regrowth does not itch. Do not shave as you will be itching like a madwoman, not good in public situations.
    If you are brave you could have yourself a brazillian at a salon... i dont have the guts for that.

    Exfoliate and watch out for ingrown hairs.

    have fun!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Iluv2party wrote:
    Its not unusual for a guy to want u to b shaven. its alot cleaner for them and for you too, and that makes them more confident to going down on u. Men love to look at you, you can see everything and that is a big turn on for them. prob a bit of porno imagery thing going on too.
    I always shave as its alot cleaner for me to manage during periods and my BF loves my shaved pussy.. I must admit i prefer a man to trim down there too.

    How to shave:
    You need a mirror to see what ur doin, trim the hair with a hair trimmer (cheap off Argos catalogue) these are good as they will not cut skin.
    You can leave it like that trimmed, or if you want it really smooth then you can further smear hair remover moussse (immac) and then gently scrub it off in the bath, (watchout for skin irritation and make sure you do not exceed the application time, 10 mins max) I use immac as the regrowth does not itch. Do not shave as you will be itching like a madwoman, not good in public situations.
    If you are brave you could have yourself a brazillian at a salon... i dont have the guts for that.

    Exfoliate and watch out for ingrown hairs.

    have fun!

    Thanks for the advice so far! I think I'll go with this suggestion,as I am definitely NOT brave enough to have a Brazilian at a salon! How can anybody find the nerve to do that? :blush: :blush: :blush:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not picking on you here, but why do you find it more attractive? I don't find hairy chests unattractive, and it's only fairly recently that women have been presented with the idea that hairy chests are a turn off. You've been reinforced with the idea that pubic hair/underarm hair/general body hair on a woman is sexually unattractive by our society's standards and if you lived in (for example) Germany then you'd find the obsession with getting rid of as many visible signs of sexual maturity completely baffling. Our society is obsessed with the idea of youth to a point where I do believe it is bordering on paedophilic sometimes, and this is reflected in fashions in clothing and general appearance, body hair included.

    So fashions are bordering on peadophilic? Any examples? :confused:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's a sad reflection when someone's perfectly innocent request for his girlfriend to shave down below is seen as paedophillic in my opinion.

    Some folk are a bit too quick to jump into conclusions.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree Mr Mist, and it can probably be agreed that getting pubes in your teeth isn't very nice.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    He actually wants me to shave my vagina completely for him!

    More importantly, what do you want?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A valid question.

    Anyone else wondering how one shaves a vagina? You'd have to be dextrous to get a Mach 3 up there.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've tried it, shaving and waxing and all I will say is when the hairs start to grow back they can irritate if they arent the way they were before. My mates have done it as well and we have all agreed never to do it again!

    If you are only doing this to please your bf maybe its not the right thing, do it because you want to, your the one thats going to live with it like that day in day out so if you want it go for it lass!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kentish wrote:
    A valid question.

    Anyone else wondering how one shaves a vagina? You'd have to be dextrous to get a Mach 3 up there.
    I know, but its the only way to get rid of that pesky cervical fur.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its not that unusual a request these days. people see it in the porn movies, and now nearly everyone trims or shaves at least some of it off.
    Does he mean he wants you to do it as a treat, or does he expect you to keep it like that constantly, because its pretty high maintenance, and needs to be done every day or else it goes stubbly.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    go_away wrote:
    More importantly, what do you want?

    Well,I can't say it's something I've thought about doing before,but I'd like to think I am open minded when it comes to sex stuff,or I at least try to be-I'm a bit shy about this stuff sometimes! :blush: And I'd also like to please my boyfriend. :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    do believe it is bordering on paedophilic

    How is it so? If I have a skin head and have a few tattoos, does that mean I could possible be a Nazi/gay/football hooligan? Because someone likes a girl with either little or no hair down there, it doesn't in any way suggest any kind of paedophilic tendencies.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its not that unusual a request these days. people see it in the porn movies, and now nearly everyone trims or shaves at least some of it off.
    Does he mean he wants you to do it as a treat, or does he expect you to keep it like that constantly, because its pretty high maintenance, and needs to be done every day or else it goes stubbly.

    Would it have to be done every day even if its waxed? :confused:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jemzbabez wrote:
    Would it have to be done every day even if its waxed? :confused:
    no, but then waxing would hurt a lot more than shaving, plus not everybodys skin likes being waxed. waxing gives me ingrowing hairs which is even less of an attractive look than a full on seventies muff.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    3 words:

    Hair. Removing. Cream.... :thumb:

    Ilora x
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    3 words:

    Hair. Removing. Cream.... :thumb:

    Ilora x
    two words
    Chemical. Burns.

    thats what happened last time i tried H.R.C on my sensitive parts. :no:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you going to shave and it's your first time doing it, i would make sure you use some form of shaving foam, and a really sharp razor and do it in a warm bath or something. Then afterwards use a moisteriser like e45 or something, which may soothe any shaving rash you have.
    I found the more i did it the less sensitive the skin became so i don't really get a shaving rash or anything now.
    Also if you don't want to take it all off, alot of women just do around the edges or leave a little tidy strip there so it's not completley 'bald'. It's up too you what ever you feel comfortable with.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    3 words:

    Hair. Removing. Cream.... :thumb:

    Ilora x

    Yep! Hair clippers,then hair removing cream,that's what it's gonna be for me! :thumb: Thanks to everyone who's replied :yes: Actually,come to think of it my brother's got some hair clippers,would it be ok to borrow them do you think?? :naughty:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Erm... ewwww... no... :no: lol.

    Ilora x
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jemzbabez wrote:
    Hi everyone.Right,ok,this is a bit embarassing to write about,but basically I’ve had a bit of an unusual request from my boyfriend.He actually wants me to shave my vagina completely for him! :blush: He says he wants it this way as he prefers it for oral sex.First,do you think its unusual for a guy to want his girl to look this way(pre-pubescent?!!) :D And,if I do go ahead and do it for him,what’s the best way to go about it,as the thought of using a razor down there is worrying me a bit! :eek: Thanks


    Hows that unusual? I did mine for my man last week and he loved it! Don't shave though, you'll only end up with itchy red bumps, use bikini hair remover instead.. Also get him to return the favour! After all it's no fun for us girls to get pubes between our teeth now is it?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok.
    1. I don't want to get into a 'who's right' argument (even though it's obviously me) but to each his own - pubic hair isn't exactly a defining characteristic.

    2. Unless your boyfriend is a Gary Glitter wannabe, he's not asking you to do it because it'll make you look younger - generally because it looks neater.

    3. Like it or not, oral sex from the guy's point of view is a hell of a lot easier. Firstly, you can see what you're doing, thus improving your aim and hopefully, pleasure for the recipient. And secondly, I don't want a mouthful of hair when I go down on my lady - do/would you?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wax.


    Since you've never done it you probably dont know just how sensitive your skin is down there. When I shaved I got razor burn no matter what I did and how well I took care of it. Just like rainbow says, creams burn, and I got burned and it itched and hurt and all that fun. Waxing stings, but barely. And it lasts alot longer, doesn't itch when it grows back and you are much less likely to have a reaction to it.


    And be very glad that you get it. I wax and do everything to make him happy but I havn't gotten a mouth there in five months. I can count on two fingers how many times hes done it, no matter how much I beg and plead and ask very nicely. And god knows I return the favor, at least once a day, but nooo. Fucking Bastard. Be very glad. I'm so jelous. :(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In my experience, shaving is the most simplest way if it's your first time. I get terrible ingrowing hairs at the sides no matter what method I use (I think it is tight knicker-elastic that causes it actually!). I did a full shave for the first time a few days ago, in the bath, with soap and a new razor. It looked good and it felt really nice, someones in for a surprise!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My wife prefers to shave it all off. She said she feels cleaner :confused:
    And I prefer it because when we have oral the hairs dont tickle my face. I enjoy going down on her but its annoying when you have to stop to itch, and she also asks me to trim my hairs too, because its helps her to cum when shes on top or something :confused:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,328 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Get him to do it for you, i do lol
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