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Guys and falling asleep
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Why is it that guys think that once they've come they can roll over and go to sleep. Or even if they don't do that the favour isn't repayed and they just decide to get on with something else and ignore you?
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Oi! I want a cuddle! or ask if you can go again?
what would you like him to do after you've 'finished' ? - if you prewarn him, he should be ok with that
Yeah but if I've given him a bj or hand job it would be nice if he'd repay the favour and pay me some attention rather than me being left with nothing.
And it's fun to poke the guy when he's asleep. My ex I used to draw on his back and put make up on him to punish him.
My ex was like that. My current boyfriend isn't like that thank god. We always cuddle and talk afterwards.
Yes it is much more respectful and thoughtful to return the favour (life is all about a bit of give and take)
However, it seems in this instance your bf may need bringing round to your way of thinking?
Hence the dig in the ribs comment
Maybe he's just a little bit inexperienced in what to do after ?
But back to the topic at hand, I feel alchohol may be a key factor in this men passing out after sex question.
Maybe lack of alcohol....he is better when he's had a couple to drink.
But I do cuddle when I'm asleep:)
How rude! That's worse than falling asleep after! If a girl did that to me it would be last time I ever slept with her.
so true!
depends who what the person you're with is like. my ex was always very generous and so never had that problem. after sex we'd have a little cuddle up and then depending on what time of day it was..we'd either go to sleep or get on with things.
Cant remember where I read it though.
We once fell asleep together afterwards and slept for about an hour (in the middle of the afternoon) hehe. It was ace . But sometimes when I lose all my energy after my girlfriend gets annoyed because she's still horny and even if I try to pleasure her it just doesn't work because I can't focus as such. It makes us guys (at least me) feel bad because I want her to enjoy herself. But anyway
get yours first :thumb:
I'd just keep going. I mean, my hand is never really awake, why should the girl be?
And after that he's ready for doing it non stop if we have the time (belive me, we've tried)
The downside is that he almost eats the entire fridge
Haha tried that last night, then got tempted to play with him and damn him he decides he's enjoying so will stop pleasuring me. Maybe I just need more willpower to leave him alone.
After sex is fine not complaining then. Just complaining when he gets his seeing to and I don't.
You've just got to keep him aroused. Don't let him lie down and doze off.