If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Read the community guidelines before posting ✨
Options
Essential support for under 25s
Essential support for under 25s
Take a look around and enjoy reading the discussions. If you'd like to join in, it's really easy to register and then you'll be able to post. If you'd like to learn what this place is all about, head here.
Comments
I can't see how someone can be so tired that they just can't stop themselves falling asleep, but if that does happen then it's quite unfair for him to get his and then leave you be.
He obviously knows he's going to get tired after, so why doesn't he pay attention to you first?
The advice to get your's first sounds good!
That's easier said then done, I think my g/f is rather selfish in bed, but I find it so hard to say anything. I work on things in subtle ways and try and get her to be a little less selfish. Sometimes I feel like just saying exactly how I feel but I know it will cause serious problems and then probably end up with me getting nothing at all
But thats harsh cos he's the least selfish guy you'll ever come across in any other way..although think I did kinda shock him that I whinged we hadn't actually had sex for nearly 3 weeks...he hadn't realised :rolleyes:
same here, my g/f is the kindest and least selfish person in every other way, just not in the bedroom
makes it hard to have a go when they're like that, you just think you should be greatful for the way they are the rest of the time.
hehe, I read this thread and giggled, cos I have the opposite problem!
Ha, maybe you have because, what he wants is what i want, and my boyfriend is just like you i get, 'i dont really wanna talk about it right now, trying to watch tv, i just want to chill out' So i just have to lay in his arms and accept it after a little moan.
Ok. Fig.1 - the man. After a man has sex and thus ejaculates his body thinks, shit, gotta make more sperm pronto. The body thinks, hmm..., what would the best environment to make more sperm as quickly as possible? The best environment, as it turns out, is the same environment your body uses to repair muscles and any other routine maintenance your body needs - sleep.
Realising this, the male body, or more accurately, the brain, releases melatonin which is the sleep hormone so that the balls can get on with it. Thus a man who falls asleep after not only is trying to ensure that he can make sure he's impregnated you good and proper later, but is also just obeying his brain, his body and all the chemicals swimming around in it.
I hope this helps. I hope that a humble Russian and Spanish student has shown the ladies that they shouldn't get pissed off at their men.
And right there, my friends, is the fundamental difference between the genders; sleep or puppies.
if only it werent true.....
You can scratch your chin all you bloody like. It's not just an excuse. It's scientific fact.
Maybe but then why the hell is it other times he can quite happily get up switch the laptop on and play on that, tiday his room, or go to they gym etc?
Although saying this, I have a strange suspicion he read this thread cos he's been much better since
You bet. A hit with all the ladies in Spanish-speaking and Russian-speaking countries which comes to about 600 million people. Oh yes.
I'm guessing, and this is a guess, that you av, or at least the picture on the left of it, means you were a medic or have something to do with medicine. Not the sexiest subject ever aside from the ability to obtain prescription drugs!
Couple ways to look at this. Some guys are disrespectful and going to sleep after sex may be a good indication. Some guys are so comfortable with the girl that they feel free to go asleep without rejection. If you don't like it talk to him about it. If he hasn't satisfied you completely before taking a nap then I think it's time to seriously assess his future value to you. He may not be into you and falling asleep is a good indication. You may not be anymore to him that a piece of meat and you need to make a decision on this one. Every guy is different. Finding the right one may not be an easy task. Frankly when I am with my girl the last thing in the world I want to do is fall asleep and miss out on something. :no:
it isn't always like that though, generally what happens is during orgasm most men hold their breath, which makes them tired, and thus they don't have much energy (if any) left. Also if you're going at it fast and vigourously, then yeah, he's going to be quite tired.
Also depends somewhat on cardiovascular health. As previously mentioned bf has a heart condition. it isn't serious but he does need to be monitored every 2 years with an ECG, if the condition gets worse he'll need surgery to correct it, HOWEVER, due to this issue, he doesn't like being ontop too much as he'll tire faster, and once he orgasms, that's it. He holds his breath during orgasm, so combine that with a heart condition, and boom, instant fatigue.
He doesn't like it, but I'd rather he rest up than over exert himself. :yes:
You charmer Kentish!
I bet Rohypnol goes down a hit with the ladies!
Get hold of the liquid suspension of amoxicillin and I'm yours
The one that tastes of yellow