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However, the good side is that after the period of lonliness with lead to me wanted to rekindle the past i started to go clubbing with a friend and have had lots of "fun" and made loads of friends which i wouldnt have done had i stayed with her.
Plus shes now a chavette!
Sorry to hear that, it's really shit
I used to get really wound up about friends and how much they abuse my loyalty or piss me around but nowadays i'll just get mad, say my piece honestly and then try and make amends because as skive has shown some terrible things can happen. Okay i get the odd mardy week but i always try and build bridges as lifes too short to stress. If i don't build the bridge then i burn it completely. Every persons different but this is the way i handle it.
I once gave a girl a hard time because she started dating my ex and her and my best mate at the time gave me a rough ride so in the end we were all at each others throats. Three years later she was killed by a drunk driver. We never properly made up and my best mate and i never spoke afterwards.
Well there's a surprise.
definitely. Totally agree. With my 'so called friend' she did while i was living with him and had a 5month old son to him. not good at all. was nearly a year ago and i still hate her
Don't you two talk at home? Should we have a thread in here just for you?
She married me.
Serves her right for saying I was to never ever have a boyfriend with a fat body like that (shes a size 18 and she's 13, btw *rolls eyes* I'm a size 12 and I'm 14) and shit like that!!
... and i do have a boyfriend, of 7 months
Haha no i don't mean my boyfriend turned gay or anything! What it was it that i was mates with this guy for years, we were proper best mates and then i met my boyfriend and introduced my best mate to him.
They got along fine but my best mate became so obsesed with my boyfriend, honestly, he thought he was the best thing since sliced bread because my boyfriend had a rep as being abit hard, my ex best mate loved the fact he was hanging around with somone "hardcore" and they totaly went off together.
My ex best mate would stich me up and grass me up for stupid things i had done to my boyfriend just to get in his good books and get me in trouble.
I have split up with my boyfriend now and now my ex best mate barley even talks to me anymore, but he phones my ex everyday :mad: so much 4 loyalty!
~XXX~
I hate people like that,theres a lad who me and my bf used to hang around with, my bf's brother has a reputation of being hard, so our so called mate ditched our group and followed my bf's brother and mates around, he was basically just their lap dog, but he thought he was good being good mates with them. Now they've ditched him, he wants to hang around with us again. First night out with us, he pinches £10 off my bf, now he's got no one. i have no sympathy for him
I am very, very picky about my friends. That means I have a few rather than a big crowd, but I know the ones I have are friends for life and I prefer it that way.
My "best friend" used to do that quite a bit back home and it used to really annoy me the amount of times she did it. One night i'd had my wallet stolen, she wouldn't lend me money and she fuc*ed off with her bf and left me penniless in town. Luckily a taxi driver trusted me and took me home.
Mates should never ever leave another mate alone. I did it once to the above girl to give her a bit of her own medicine but she didn't care and i couldn't face doing it again as it just wasn't me. No matter how drunk i am i will always see a friend home/make sure they're safe etc.
It's all good now though-new friends, new boyfriend etc. I havent looked back.