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Worst thing a 'friend' has done to you?
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I don't mean to make a depressing thread, but i just thought....what's the worst thing a so called friend has ever done to you?
To be polite i'll answer first....it would probably be chosing me over a bf and making up stupid stories and rumours...
but also....at primary school a so called friend turned on me when a new girl arrived who was a bully....and they both made my life hell for the rest of the year plus everyone else joined in.....
To be polite i'll answer first....it would probably be chosing me over a bf and making up stupid stories and rumours...
but also....at primary school a so called friend turned on me when a new girl arrived who was a bully....and they both made my life hell for the rest of the year plus everyone else joined in.....
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Who did that?
Needless to say I was pissed but i go over it I let her keep the clothes and moved on. Today she called me and told me that she missed me and I was right the enitre time and she wants to be friends again!
and repeatedly told me that no one would ever like me until i 'slimmed down' a bit, despite me (hindsight is a wonderful thing) not needing to lose a pound.
yeah, she was pretty special. and she wonders why i don't talk to her now. :chin:
best thing is the rest of the people there, while standing there and doing nothing, did actually feel quite bad for me afterwards, glad i dont talk to the cnut in question anymore though
I ran off in floods of tears and couldnt face going back. Felt soooo betrayed. He was such a hypocrite because he did the same as me.
She tried to get back in contact at the beginning of this year, but I've decided not to! If I ever did, I imagine I'd keep my phone and it's number well hidden!
like when i got these random emails off my now 'ex best mate' accusing me of fancying her bf and trying to split them up :eek2:
my ex best mate decided it was cool to get into my then boyfriends good books by telling him constantly while i was away on holiday i had been messing about only to get with him her self..
i stoped talking to them both been about 2 years now!
We decided we wanted to be together, and so we went up to his house to tell him that they were no longer a couple...we were. :razz:
Think that's the most cuntish thing I've ever done to a mate. Dunno about vice versa.
a) going out with a girl I knew my mate fancied (well, had been obsessed with for 2 years beforehand ). In my defence she didn't want to go out with him and had rejected him several times. All the same though.
b) errm. Can't think of anything. I'm always 'playfighting' and end up hurting someone tohugh, but luckily my mates have toughened up now and so just laugh about it, and I've grown up a bit so the need to spontaneously attack people is gone a little.
My mates have pretty much always been there for me . Actually, there was one guy who when I got rejected by a girl started sending me texts a few days later saying they were in bed together for a joke. They weren't... but it still upset me. Taste of my own medicine I suppose
Still I never got pissed about it, and 3 months later he died after stealing and crashing his old dears motor into a tree whilst off his face.
As I was too shy, it went on for months without me realising, and when I finally got the courage to try and ask her out, believing what the Devil Incarnate had said was true, his trick worked a lot better than he had hoped.
I still have no idea why he did all that, what he had to gain. Maybe he was just getting his kicks by watching people torment themselves emotionally.
Oh well this was over two and a half years ago now, it kinda pooped up everything in our big group of friends and my erm attadence at college. So for me it was the consquences which hit harder than the actual actions themselves.