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our parents are always in the way........
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hi,
i've been going out with a girl for about 4 months now and we are definately ready for sex but, the problem is our parents.. they are always in the way (if you know what i mean)... there isn't anywhere "private" that we can go to...
i don't know if anyone else has had simalar expieriences???
all replys and suggestions will be **greatly** appreciated......
i've been going out with a girl for about 4 months now and we are definately ready for sex but, the problem is our parents.. they are always in the way (if you know what i mean)... there isn't anywhere "private" that we can go to...
i don't know if anyone else has had simalar expieriences???
all replys and suggestions will be **greatly** appreciated......
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and its also better to wait as long as possible cos if u do it when ur too young it may not turn out as good if u can't come properly.
Um....not really cos most people dont move out until they are at least 18. About where to go..um...outside in the summer is ideal but around this time of year I seriously do not recommend it! Other places - mates house maybe?
Respect
moonspoon (cool name! hehe), MY parents always used to get in the way with my boyfriend, only he stayed at my house due to him living 200 miles away and it being kinda difficult for a day trip.. so the middle of the night kinda solved the prob! hmmm im not sure what you could do, i spose outside would work, but its bloody cold at the moment!! maybe if there was like a sleepover or something at a mates, then the parents might go out and there might be a free room available...?
It's better to regret things you've done than things you haven't.
if they r in ur way as in watchin u then ur probably too young and thats why they dont give u any space.
It's better to regret things you've done than things you haven't.
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.
Hey mate, cut with the shit, it's not funny. We all have our reasons for being so protective of thesite, for asking the newbies introduce themselves and stuff. I've been here a while, and I know that some bad ppl can come around. We wanna sniff them out ASAP, and the best way to do that is by getting to know them quickly.
I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away.
do you know how many freaks there are on the internet??? we use this site to pour out our troubles and we do not want some freak coming in here a destroying it. so don't take the piss alright? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made them to match the men.
Sorry GFM, don't agree there. Several of my friends (you lot must really worry about what sort of people I hang around with) have been there, done that, got the pregnancy test. It's all like, "Oh, I'm ready to sleep with him."
"Are you sure?"
"Yeah, I'll make sure he uses a condom and everything..."
A couple of months later...
"Why did I do it? He's such a tosser. Thank God I'm not pregnant. How was I supposed to the condom would split?"
People can be on the Pill, use a condom and still get pregnant. Just ask my mother *lol*
All this 'being ready' stuff is fine for a while, until he dumps you and the doctor patronises you when he gives you the results back. Without sounded 80, the law's there for a reason, because the majority of girls that age aren't really ready for sex [I'm not excluding myself here] Just look at the pregnancy statistics.
Moonspoon...how old are you? Just imagine how embarrassed you'd be if they walked in on your girl giving you a good rogering. Save your cash and do as whizzygirl says, getta room already!
*|* Chica *|*
Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
It's better to regret things you've done than things you haven't.
I didn't lose my mind, it was mine to give away.
Forget about this guys and his girls ages, he wanna know where to take her. He reckons they are "definately" ready so dont keep on the issue of age.
Respect
sorry for not introducing myself- you're right there are a lot of weirdos out there...
we're both 18 and have almost finished Yr13 (Sixth form).
sorry for changing the topic guys <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
It's better to regret things you've done than things you haven't.
I agree, but in the case of your aunt like you said, she was an ADULT. More life experience, more likely to have family/friends to support her, and almost certainly more likely to be in a better financial situation than a 15 year-old girl whose parents sling her out on the street, with nowhere to go, no-one to go to and no idea on benfits, etc. That's what I'm talking about, the fact that girls my age are MUCH MORE LIKELY to get a raw deal if they get pregnant.
A woman can (in many circumstances) claim money for the child's upkeep from the father, but a 15 year-old can hardly claim from another 15 year-old, can they? Does anyone know how that works? Surely they should get financial support from the father's family, if they're in a position to offer it?? Anywayz, I'm going off topic, and I don't Chris to explode again <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
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Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
It's better to regret things you've done than things you haven't.
mail me and i'll tell you where i live in devon,
MoonSpoon,
moonspoon@madasafish.com
No arguments there <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
*Gives GFM a stick of bubblegum*
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Stay Calm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/mad.gif">
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Moonspoon my mum will sit in her room if ive got someone round at the house, well if its a guy anyway and they very rarely get past the door, but ive never had a problem getting it on with my guys, theyve usually got their own houses or their parents aren't so bad about it,
i really sympathise with you, its my fault really though cos my mum knew i was sleeping with guys and thought shed put a stop to it,
its not stopped though i just dont do it in our house oh unless shes at work or out for the night.
Sorry to ramble.
That's a bit of a generalization isn't it mate?
Hey Rach, ever tried the fromt seat of a mini!!!!!!!!!!!
j9
i might try that... ;-)
LIFE: Quite interesting in parts, but no substitute for the real thing
I have this problem SERIOUSLY.. I live with my boyfriends family, away from my parents, due to reasons..
we share a bed and we have to be so QUIET.. so no shaking the headboard here LOL <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
try a mates house? her house? wait till the parentals have gone out shopping or something? make sure you know when your parents will be going out and then get her round there quick! if you have problems with this kind of situation.. then, erm.. tough.. sorry.
move out if you really can't stand it.. but respect her wishes and respect her! jumping in 4 months into the relationship is a little premature for someone like me who waited 1 year before feeling ready.. make sure you use protection too! have you ever tried to queue for emergency contraception? it's a degrading experience for a girl, i can tell you. make sure you've talked over EVERYTHING and prepared for every eventuality!! would you be able to support a child? 18 aren't chu? make sure you know what you're leaping into!! i have seen SO many doctors <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Have fun!!
FluffyPenguin