our parents are always in the way........

Former Member

Originally posted by helenfluffypenguin:
Hi,

I have this problem SERIOUSLY.. I live with my boyfriends family, away from my parents, due to reasons..

we share a bed and we have to be so QUIET.. so no shaking the headboard here LOL <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

try a mates house? her house? wait till the parentals have gone out shopping or something? make sure you know when your parents will be going out and then get her round there quick! if you have problems with this kind of situation.. then, erm.. tough.. sorry.

move out if you really can't stand it.. but respect her wishes and respect her! jumping in 4 months into the relationship is a little premature for someone like me who waited 1 year before feeling ready.. make sure you use protection too! have you ever tried to queue for emergency contraception? it's a degrading experience for a girl, i can tell you. make sure you've talked over EVERYTHING and prepared for every eventuality!! would you be able to support a child? 18 aren't chu? make sure you know what you're leaping into!! i have seen SO many doctors <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

Have fun!!
FluffyPenguin

Good idea, except that I think you'll find that these two are still quite young (although I'm only guessing) and that moving out isn't exactly something to be taken as lightly as you seem to have put it.

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[This message has been edited by Turtle (edited 16-01-2001).]

Girl-From-Mars

helen, i sooo know what you mean about the squeakyness! i used to stay with my boyfriend soem weekends coz we lived so far apart.. firstly we had the interruption problem (!) and my bed was squeaky as hell, when he used to stay with me!! and we took it upon ourself to do it downstairs in his house once, on the bed in the lounge!! NOT good. VERY squeaky.. and there was a bit of an incident with a nativity scene once, involving a foot and shepherds rapidly hitting the ground!! dont ask.. but his dad luckily didnt come down to see what was goign on until 10 mins later!!! phew!

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