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Ah, so YOUR experience is that you got bad breath from sucking cock and swallowing cum? Well, I guess you ought to know then ... but it's a shame that you aren't entertaining.
J, you may have a point that all people - gay, straight or bi act a certain way to fit in with the way the dominant members of any particular group or circle of friends are behaving. Many many actors are luvvies - similar to the camp 'phenomenom', but does this make them gay - kate winslett, will smith, nicole kidman et al?
Let's try not to stereotype. I have a very camp gay cousin - he is naturally slightly effiminate but everyone is very aware he is hamming it up/turning it up several notches. Call it self-expression, need for clowning through attention-seeking leading to acceptance, BUT THIS DOES NOT MAKE ALL GAY PEOPLE CAMP ACTING (The capitals are for everyone.) Let's get away from teh sterotypes: it's boring. Of the gay guys I know quite well to date four are very straight acting, two are ambiguous and four out and out camp. Let's start judging people as individuals. This smacks of: "everypne in J Lo style sweat pants is a chav" "All black men are muggers." Let people live their lives. There are as amany shades of gay people as they are straight, to suggest they have this one homogensiing characteristic, which is so overpowering as to form the most part of their being is at best dangerous and at worse downright discriminatory. Bad breath can happen to anyone - it's a shame you've had to put up with halitosis from anyone gay or straight.
Also, don't understand what would be the catastrophe in terms of gay men and war? Please elaborate if so wish.
I don't think that was what J meant at all Teagan. Be nice.
And when he said "Great entertainers though, smelly breath from sucking cock and swallowing cum in my experience", that was nice? I'm sure that you havent noticed this with your gay cousin.
I hate that people think all gay men and gay sex is skanky. Yes they wouldn't like it but the thought of sex with a woman turns me off the way it turns straight people off to have sex with someone of the same sex. And love and passion can be involved in homsexual sex just as it is in straight sex. So there
sorry just needed to say that!
Oh, I have nothing else to add. J passed a sweeping and derogatory comment (in line with the tone of many of his other posts) which was intended to cause offence and a reaction. if he thought he was being funny, I just turned the tables on him. I'm certainly not going to lose any sleep over this. But thanks for your balanced and thoughtful contribution. :thumb:
My breath stinks of smoke TBH.
Trade have had yet another final closing night, although it does seem like it might be for good this time.
As for the topic, the gay mates that i have are all just normal blokes who just happen to shag men, rather than camp queens, who annoy them as much as they annoy me.