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Everyone has sexual preferences. Some of you wouldn't dream of dating someone who was overweight but others find it attractive. Some like blondes others don't. My partner is Chinese and we are married with a beautiful daughter but people still stare at us in the street in disbelief. Yes, even these days it still happens.
If two people love eachother or are into eachother, who else has the right to say that it is wrong? Also, if a young person thinks they are gay and later realises that they are not, so what? We all have the right to live and learn. I would love to go back and change lots of things, but then my past makes me who I am today. It all goes down to experience.
Also, How many of you can truly, honestly say that you have never questioned your sexuality at some point in your life, even if only for one second? It is part of our nature to question ourselves in this way and if you are grown up enough and secure enough about who you are you should be able to admit it to yourself.
So, obviously if I see a gay couple kissing in the street it would not bother me. (Seen it all in gay-friendly bars anyway!) It would also not bother me if I needed to explain anything regarding homosexuality to my child if she witnessed this.
Just follow your hearts and forget about everyone elses prejudices but beware of the violent shit-bags, believe me there are enough of 'em around.
Oh, and johnny, whats all this "if its okay to be gay then how you justify the presence of women" stuff? Just because its okay doesn't mean that everyone has to do it. People are different. Lesbianism also exists, does this remove the need for men? You're making stereotypes here, just because the majority of people are hetrosexual doesn't mean that homosexuality is wrong, it just means it's different.
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[This message has been edited by Caliph (edited 09-08-2000).]
[This message has been edited by Caliph (edited 09-08-2000).]
Don't forget, the bible was written by men, not 'god' and anyway I reckon this so called 'god' is an alien who started all this off as an experiment. He must be having a right good old larf at us all right now.