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Watching porn and masturbating while in a relationship!
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Guys,
do you still watch porn and masturbate while in a relationship?
I do still and i have been with my gf for just over 2 years, but i still get urges when i get the chance to just watch hardcore porn on the net!! and 9/10 i don't just end up watching it.....it's just too arousing!
My gf does not know i do this, and there is a valid reason.....she would think that she has either done something wrong, that i don't fancy her anymore and/or that she is crap in bed....when the truth is....it's just an addiction more than anything and there is nothing wrong with her or her performance in bed!
What do you all think?
do you still watch porn and masturbate while in a relationship?
I do still and i have been with my gf for just over 2 years, but i still get urges when i get the chance to just watch hardcore porn on the net!! and 9/10 i don't just end up watching it.....it's just too arousing!
My gf does not know i do this, and there is a valid reason.....she would think that she has either done something wrong, that i don't fancy her anymore and/or that she is crap in bed....when the truth is....it's just an addiction more than anything and there is nothing wrong with her or her performance in bed!
What do you all think?
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like renzo says we all have urges from time to time - from a womans point of view I expect there are things that she does in her own company but doesnt tell you about - we all need our privacy so I wouldnt worry about it.
HTH
if one of you is horny as a rabbit, and the other really isn't, then a quick hand shandy with the dotcom ladies is so much healthier than the non-horny one having to do it anyway, or for the horny one to sit and stew.
is this normal?
I can't see it being a problem, even if my partner told me they were doing the same thing, as it's perfectly normal.
Practising safe sex with another person, would be were I'd cross the line funnily enough
surely better than going out and hitting some other whore though?
Mayb u shud drop some hint abouts watchin it with your girlfriend if u like it that much!
But dont feel guilty, loads of girls do similar when they not single and their guys love it!
why do men always say that? its like saying men either need to wank or cheat, and its the womans choice which they do!
no you missed my point dear, i wasnt on about men wanking, i was on about how some say "well its better than going off with another woman" as if they have to have porn or another woman
Meh, men need to wank. Its a fact. Wanking prevents wet dreams. Better get it out that end up sticky in the morning. :yuck:
no it doesnt
Hmm... Never trust the interweb.
hey, big man
watch the name-calling! no reason for that here. pick up an anger management course somewhere--we'll all be better off.
I thought i reconised your name from somewhere, then i realised your the dude that sent me a pm asking to meet up for casual sex in Leicester a couple of months ago :yeees: So i think you wanking is the least of your girlfriends problems. Some people hey.
ahahahahaha :thumb:
It is used as an excuse but that doesn't mean it isn't true. Guys balls can hurt through lack of sex. It is also worse if you get really wound up then let down. Still shouldn't be an excuse to get people to sleep with you.