Watching porn and masturbating while in a relationship!

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Actually it's all biological. The male's prostate fills periodically and causes us to become very horny because we need to relieve the pressure in our gland.

End n3rd program.

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Teh_Gerbil wrote:

I wonder if we could start a national non-wanking day for charity?

That poses practical difficulties. How do you ensure they don't sneak off for a quiet one during the day?

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Perfectly normal everyone gets urges and it's not just men that watch porn.

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stargalaxy wrote:

That poses practical difficulties. How do you ensure they don't sneak off for a quiet one during the day?

If they do, they should feel disappointed with themselves. Oh the shame - a little string of words would loop around and around and around in their heads all week - 'I couldn't refrain from masturbation, I'm a single-sex addict...'

This would slowly drive them insane.

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I don't understand the theory - "Yeah, I'd rather my bloke wanked than shagged other people!" He wanked before you or anyone else came along, why should he increase or decrease that?

It's just a release of frustration, and it's not THAT big a deal. You can't be shagging him every hour of the day, or blowing him like Pearl Harbour. You're not Annabel Chong, love.

As for the porn thing I'm not bothered, I watched porn before I got with any of my blokes and I'll be damned if I stop that and having fun with myself for anyone.

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I'm a lot hornier than my boyfriend, we have sex pretty much every time we are together. I just found out that my boyfriend has porn in his bedroom and it upset me, I can't understand why he needs it when he could just call me, I never say no...

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I just want to know if when men masturbate to porn if they are just looking at the pretty pictures or if they are actually imagining being with the girls on the page. I understand that he will be attracted to other women and thats fine, its the idea that he would get turned on and actually want to be turned on by the thought of being with another woman :crazyeyes

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Nah, porn is for the single and refused.

If it weren't for porn we'd be blasting caps in our sleep!

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beachgirl wrote:

I'm a lot hornier than my boyfriend, we have sex pretty much every time we are together. I just found out that my boyfriend has porn in his bedroom and it upset me, I can't understand why he needs it when he could just call me, I never say no...

Honestly, don't worry. As a few people have demonstrated here (and in no way are they a minority), it's entirely possible to for porn to be present in a healthy, loving sexual relationship. Just a primal urge (imagine an ape goin on a date with madam palm... :razz: ), and there's no need to feel threatened.

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girlfriend comes first i hope?

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I'm a girl, in a relationship with a guy who watches porn. I know he does it and i'm fine with it! Though i'd prefer if he'd wait till i get round there so we can watch it together, after all my hand is so much softer than his!