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But then again, having sexual desires towards children is not illegal, however wrong we might think it is on principle. It's acting on such desires that must be prevented.
In any case paedophilia is an unnatural condition that cannot and should not be put in the same bag as other sexual desires and preferences, such as homosexuality and heterosexuality. I find comments suggesting that "if paedophilia can be altered, so can homosexuality" extremely distasteful, nasty and completely pointless and gratuitous to be honest.
so are you trying to say homosexuality is wrong
Please explain why you are bringing this and heterosexuality into a debate which is about peadophilia, ive totally lost the plot, because the latter is a sick, disgusting thing whereas the other 2 are natural things in my opinion.
and whats this about lack of consent......your talking out your arse again. Why the hell would anyone consent for an adult to sexually abuse a child in any way. I really dont understand what you are saying here.(Edited to add ive had strong painkillers, so thats my excuse)
ah right, ok......i got the wrong end of the stick
Why is paedophilia less natural than homosexuality?
In any case the body of a child has not adequately developed yet to have sexual relations. Nor is the child mentally prepared for it, or fully understands or consents to the act.
Those are the main differences between paedophilia and sex between consenting adults.
Incidentally, if we are to compare them all heterosexuality cannot be left out.
I guess you'll have to take my word as the ultimate deciding truth...
That's why I'd rather talk about, and act upon adults trying to have sex with children.
It's only recently that homosexuality has been accepted as not wrong, how can you say that it won't be the same for paedophillia. It is also not to be assumed that every paedophile a) acts on the impulse and b) becomes a murderer.
They are the same in the way they both strike from the 'norm' and that if one (homosexuality) is genetic and in-built from birth, then so is paedophilia.
That is why no one has the right to say the former is 'wrong', but there is every right to describe the latter as wrong.
A relationship perhaps, but the feelings?
I can't understand either TBH.
So according to your logic if there is nothing wrong with hererosexual feelings no one can argue that sexual feelings towards children are wrong either can they?
I've said why. For the hard of reading, here it is again - homosexuals have a good chance of having a loving consenting equal relationship. Paedophiles don't.
What rubbish. There is no way that you can say because x is caused by y then z must be as well. It's total nonsense.
Yes, but you're not that bright are you?
your off your rocker...............I cant beleive some of the crap coming out in this thread.
I give up :banghead:
Well, well, well............here we go again.
That's right
I can't understand homosexuality just as I can't understand being attracted to little kids. I'm no more attracted to other men that I am little kids. That is because I'm a hetrosexual attracetd to women over the age of consent.
I do however accept that homosexual relationships can be healthy where as acts between an adult and a child can never be.
I was talking about feelings not relationships.