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Is sex better whenyou're drunk or sober?
Do you do things you wouldn't normally do when intoxicated?
Do you do things you wouldn't normally do when intoxicated?
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yes i do tons of stuff i wouldn't normally do while drunk....
When I'm drunk, I get more liberated and do things a bit more wild than what I'd usually do. The other night, I was talking absolute filth that'd make Jenna Jameson blush. That was fun, but sober sex will allllllllways prevail, YO!
From an Irish point of veiw , drunk beats sober. Following on with that train of logic drunk sex beats sober sex.
From a male point of veiw, women are more fun in bed when they are a bit drunk, or even very drunk. It allows them to say and do shit they would never dare when sober, even a good bumming !!
Men also last longer when the have the right amount of alcohol , ( and should not lose their boner over a few poxy pints ). this is better for the ladies !
Alcohol beats any other aphrodisiac on earth !!!
yup... like forever... making sex whilst drunk pretty boring imo.
you know, I'd like to come too when doing it
so what really rocks now is when the girl's drunk but oneself is not (or not much at least)...
or just plain sober sex :thumb:
have to agree with you dude
Mind, the mysogyny on this message board offends me. And there's a lot of it.
plus... if you're sleeping with the person you shouldn't have to be shy with them.. and if you are feeling like that you shouldn't be sleeping with them in the first place.
and if you're not shy with them... then why do you need alcohol to try new things?
no, at least what I was talking about was being "slightly drunk"... like a little crazy but still in a condition to live out that craziness
But yes. A bit of tipsyness can sometimes be amusing, but drunk? Only the worst kind of lsoer would ever want to have sex with a drunk woman.
Was that for me?
exactly!!! why are you having sex with someone if you need alcohol to be fully comfortable with them??
Wow ! Sweeping statement !!
The key to good sexual relations is the loss of inhibitions and inner comfort with yourself and your fuckee. This can be achieved by 1. spending a good deal of time together there by slowly breaking down the sexual barriers and enjoyng a full free sexual romp OR
2. getting bolloxed and fucking like wild animals !!
I am not saying one is better , but dump method two in on top of method one and then you 'll be rockin and rollin !
Grohl agrees and I salute your no bull shit point of veiws through out the forum !
Alcohol is a tool to be used correctly to enjoy sex.
This is not unnatural or wrong. Wine is synonimous with romance and love making. Its a natural thing !!
And as for not being able to cum..................eh thats called brewers droop man. YOu need to get it checked or pick a sexier partner . If men are getting bored of sex after 15 - 20 mins thats a problem. It can often take hours to satisfy a woman !!
Sometimes it's not about feeling comfortable with them; but with yourself.
I know I can be paranoid about my body. A little bit of alcohol gives you the confidence to go for it. Not saying for ya to get plastered/blind drunk.
well... people become unsatisfied with their bodies because they care what other people think of their appearance... this goes for everyone
but obviously if he wants to bang you, you're fucking beautiful in his eyes....
but i can understand what you're talking about, i see where' you're coming from.
Why should you need to add alcohol to enjoy sex? I think having sex when drunk, numbs a lot of the feelings you would get if you were sober. It depends how drunk we're talking about here. A bit of alcohol can make it better sometimes.
Not necessarily : a man may like to bang you because you simply have a heart beat and a hole ! We are not all Lotharios who will only lie iwth one they love !!
okay but you have to find this woman somewhat attractive if you want to bang her... maybe you won't think she's beautiful.. but still... doesn't there have to be somewhat of a physical attraction??
Being drunk will not affect the sensations of pleasure at all really unless you are plastered.
And to answer your question about why its needed , the answer is two fold......
1. I am Irish
2. The brain is the most potent and powerful sexual organ. Alcohol promotes deeper imaginative images and breaks down the minds barriers , thereby allowing for a temporary abandonment of body worries and inhibitions
its true, i've seen it done before by a mate of mine. i couldnt do it myself but whatever floats his boat, most of them were mingers. he didnt care who they were and what they looked like as long as they has tits, ass and a hole to stick it in. its sad but thats the way he was and still is.
To be breif ...............NO
If a man needs it you will find he will step over his own mother to get what he can.
haven't you ever heard the saying " any port in a storm !"
:yuck: that sounds horrible.
True, so true !!
Its pretty shitty really. I have never slept with some one that I did not find attractive . And it is always better like that, but looks are a bonus to alot of men !
Angel, you rock !