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Talking about sex to relatives
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Does anyone talk about their sex lives with their brothers / sisters mothers or fathers?
At uni this guy was telling us a story of how open the French are about Sex and he said this girl he knows went out on a date and came home and the father says to the daughter at the dinner table
"So how was the sex?"
and she replies it was good.
Like I don't know any parents and kids that are that open.
At uni this guy was telling us a story of how open the French are about Sex and he said this girl he knows went out on a date and came home and the father says to the daughter at the dinner table
"So how was the sex?"
and she replies it was good.
Like I don't know any parents and kids that are that open.
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The only other times when we talk about sex are at sunday lunch with my sisters and even then its just comments about it hidden within comments.
Oh yea and when my mum got drunk and told me she spits:eek2:
I bet your life is so much better for knowing that
Our family dont talk about sex, etc, but my mum's always said she'd buy me johnnies if i needed them. I know that if i had to ask my mum id feel sorta ok with it, as ok as you can feel about talking to yout parents about doin it
OH >>> MY >> GOD :eek2:
Does she remember that she told you?
I assume your parents are still together??
I'm feeling soo queezy after reading that ...
How old are your folks??
Flipping heck that explains everything!!!
The raunchiest girls were always the ones brought up and schooled by Nuns .. so you must be a right goer!!!
She knows I have sex regularly, but she doesn't twitter on about it. I natter to my sister who's 11 years older than me about it! She told me that she stopped breast feeding because my bro in law didn't like seeing her tits being sucked on when he wanted to.
So we're pretty close, innit.
she does. especially when we have company :crazyeyes
Mum's by far the easiest one to talk to. I'm like Kaffrin though, i can talk easily about sex with my mum but i don't make random comments like "cor mum he sure knows what to do with it".
My mum's more inclined to make comments. We were sat behind a sports car one day and she decided to inform me "when i was younger i had sex in one of those". With my warped humour i thought it was amusing
At Least she didnt decide to inform you that the urban legend about black shlongs is infact a lie...
"Well son..... men and women have.... certain ..... parts....
... the man and woman bring.... these.... parts into play....
...
... and that's how it's done"
(Great, can I have this chat from someone who's actually HAD sex?)
It's not really talked about, no point I don't think. I don't want to know details, and I doubt my mum does.
It's a wonder I know anything at all.
And that's not good. I learnt it the hard way.:(
I don't talk about it with dad, although he knows I'm 18 and that it's all natural etc etc. And whenever I say the word 'sex' my sister goes off on one about me being her 'ickle sister' and that I shouldn't be having sex lol. *She's 21 btw* so yeh.. that's how it is avec ma famille!!!
Ilora x
It's quite amazing I know anything
Never talk to my Dad or Brother about it- they are lacking in people skills and so probably wouldn't be able to handle me talking about it.
Doesn't really fit does it?
I'll joke about it with my parents but wouldn't go into detail about my or their sex life - it's just not necessary. If I had a scare I might talk to my mum about it, but not my dad - he'd seem fine about it on the outside but I have a feeling it'd really embarass and upset him! He thinks I'm still his little girl.....:rolleyes:
When I was in my teens, my Mum got a book about sex from the library and let me "borrow" it. Well, it was more a book about where babies come from, and how they're made. Ewww! Some of the pictures haunt me to this day! :crazyeyes