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I've found this with exes in the past. They are all nicey nicey when they have a new girl but then as soon as you start seeing somebody else they go all cold on you. Its like they expect you to not move on. Its like they want the ego boost of you wanting them.
From personal experience, its far easier not to stay friends with your exes. From my point of view, its always messy. It causes problems in your current relationships too. There is always an ex girlfriend/ex boyfriend trying to cause problems in your relationship, trying to cause jealousy, etc.
In the past I've always tried to remain friends with my exes. I mean, if you have been together a long time you have alot of history together,shared so much with them and you have so many memories together. Its not nice to lose that. However, I've found that staying friends with exes has stopped me from moving on. Staying friends with exes for me is hard as my feelings for them just don't go away overnight especially when you are still in contact with them and yeah, its not nice. I've always found that cutting contact alltogether helps me move on. I eventually end up not thinking about them at all quite quickly, as bad as that sounds and then when in a new relationship, I wonder why I was ever upset about them.
Maybe that was the problem with your ex girlfriend. She never moved on. Maybe, secretely, she was hoping you two would get back together.
My recent ex is probably what you would describe as a complete knob. He did a lot of lying. But I'm still finding it hard to let go. We were together for a year but best mates for about two years before that, and he was my first proper boyfriend. I think it's a shame to lose all of that in one go, and the closeness and friendship. Because of the circumstances I know I should tell him exactly where he can go, but it's not always that easy
I think she was. She did cause problems. Not directly but indirectly which upset me. Just wish i knew what happened and what I did. I had to sit back and watch her with new bfs but as soon as I moveon its 'dont wanna know you'.
Thats typical of girls I find.
I'm glad me and her broke up though. The girlfriend i have now is perfect and I wouldn't want that ruined. Shes the one
Well good luck with everything anyway
I feel like I go to jelly lol
And i lost my virginity to her so it makes her even more special