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Seems like i wasnt the only one who was confused by her kissing methods
Apart from that everyone else has been decent enough, my current girlfriend is an amazing kisser. I love the tingling feeling you get from a really nice kiss when you havent seen each other in a while :yes:
It put me off kissing for about 3 years. :mad:
Ilora x
i went out with a guy for about a week we finished like 2 weeks ago. i met him in the gym - the fittest guy imaginable, and the kind of person who is good at this sort of thing (experiance im guessing) and when we kissed he put his tongue so far in my mouth!!!!! ewwwwww so much slobber, and im quite a good kisser but he must have felt my teeth loads cos he was shoving his tongue so far down my throat!!!!
he was goood at everything else we did tho so it was all good
didnt break up because of the kiss (we had nothing in common)
jenni
No but seriously I had a really bad kiss with an Italian too (well his mum was Italian), totall washing machine (on the fast spin cycle), so so bad and still makes me cringe and it was about 6 years ago!
I like to bite the bottom lip of the bloke I'm kissing, do you think this could be someones worst kiss? I'm worried but I just can't help nibbling a lovely bottom lip.
But then there was this one guy I tried went out with, but it didnt last past the first date, I swear his salivery glands must have been in over drive or something because it got almost all over my face but also there was a little puddle on my jeans :yuck: I made a sharp exit at that point.
My first kiss with my boyfriend was a short, cute peck on the lips. The first time he used his tonge was not that bad it could have been better and a lot worse. I think it was because he took me by surprise, but at least he did not try ramming his tonge down my throat.
I've never had *terrible* kisses. I've had a significantly below average one. With one of my exes. He kind of was a micro-washing machine, but meh. Most of the others have been good ones tbh.
Talk about an early arriver!
As for love bites, ive come back from my boyfriends today and my neck is well, im embarressed to say the least! Going to be lots of make up when i go for my college interview tomurow!
classy.
if he's biting your neck and it hurts/you don't like it, then tell him.
but if i think a guy can't kiss i tell them try this try that etc. and voila! i turn them into good kissers!
it just goes to show, that what one person hates, someone else will love. I really like love bites too. Nothing over the top conspicuous or it looks tacky, but i love how it feels when youre getting one
as for biting..... well I think sometimes a girl just needs to be bitten.
I dont know if im a good kisser or not. Ive been told I am in the past, but then again, my boyf has told me that I dont always use tongues as much as he would like.
I hate it when guys grope you when they kiss you aswell or dont let you come up for air.
Ilora x
Maybe guys use tongues as another kind of penetration thing, domination perhaps? just a random thought
Ilora x
Not at all the reason in my case or most of guys I think.
It's just with the tongue it is more sexual/sensual.
I like both personally.
oh god i reckon my first kiss i actually nearly drowned. I swear there was spit up to my eyebrows. And he had a cold so had eaten lots and lots of lockets. So my thoughts during the kiss went: ooo...lips...wow...strong...arg...gurgleglug...gasp