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Some of my friends have admitted that they thought I didn't like them at first, because I was so reluctant to talk. I also hate it when people comment that I'm quiet, because it embarrasses me and just makes me quieter. What am I supposed to say in reply to a remark like that? 'I know'?!
I know what you mean, people saying stuff like that doesn't help at all.
i'm comfortable with one on one, but groups scare me!
what i find annoying is people forgetting about you, even if you talked to them for a while, e.g. the next day someone will mention me to the person i just met and they will be like "i don't remember her" i get this alot. and i really hate it! :banghead:
It's worth just keeping an eye on the dates of a thread. This one is over a year old. If you find a thread more than a few months out of date and want to talk about something similar then it's usually best to start a new thread.
Mind you it's obviously difficult to jump straight into starting a new thread about a problem, maybe start a thread to introduce yourself.
Oh and welcome to TheSite :wave:
Oops, thread a year old, oh well
I don't think being quiet is a bad thing. Maybe when you're young, yeah. In contrast, my dad spent most of his life being quiet, carefully contemplating exactly what he was going to say before he opened his mouth. That's why people respected him so much at work and valued his opinion - because they knew it would always be sensible, concise, well-constructed and useful. There's a lot to be said for only speaking when you need to, and thinking about what you say.
I am a very, very quiet, and I would say I am the most patient and accepting person I know. I'm comfortable with myself and actually think I am a caring and nice person when people get to know me.
But some people think I'm weird or stupid, and as much as I tell myself not to let that get me down it sometimes does.
this issue has been on my mind lately because of some (not really nice) comments by friends.
Hey, welcome to the boards. :wave:
This is a really old thread so it's best to start a new one if you'd like a discussion on this subject. I'll lock this one now.