Handjob or blowjob?

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either, not really bothered, both are fun. Ive never been the biggest fan of blowjobs tho, maybe the girls ive been have just been no good at it.

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Not fussed to be honest, a bit of both is good though... just as long as she can actually give decent head then other wise it's just like, "Hmmm this is fun :rolleyes:"

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A bj isn't just cock in mouth, it should also include bollox and a bit of rimming.
HJ's are quicker and its nice if she goes down on it as you cum and swallows.

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Yep, I agree, both are pretty good, but it does depend on the delivery!

I would say a good BJ beats a good hand job, but good ones are few and far between

I agree with felix

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I'm all about both. Start with the bj then finish it with the hand.

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Hand job for me:)

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I prefer giving a blow job to giving a hand job.
I never get such a good response, and i find it really hard to know whether its good or bad or how to make it better ( without asking) plus i get bored givin hand jobs, mite just do it to start with like teasing or something.
Blowjobs are a lot more fun, more for me to do, more reaction.

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is it me or are girls really shite at giving handjobs?

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BJ's and HJ's are both linked. Whilst giving a good BJ you will be using your hands anyway. And I can guarantee he will appreciate it twice as much.

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StupidGirl wrote:

it's hard for someone else to get it right.

well usually when a girl gives me a handjob she starts of pulling really fast, boys have to sorta build up to a pace and then maintain that pace for it to be enjoyable, i think it would be a lot harder than sticking a couple of fingers up a vagina...

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Dwarfenegger wrote:

BJ's and HJ's are both linked. Whilst giving a good BJ you will be using your hands anyway. And I can guarantee he will appreciate it twice as much.

Yeah something like that.

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turlough wrote:

is it me or are girls really shite at giving handjobs?

Not all are... when I first started, yeah o.k... bit unsure... but since then, after practice and watching porn to get some tips, no complaints.....

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turlough wrote:

well usually when a girl gives me a handjob she starts of pulling really fast, boys have to sorta build up to a pace and then maintain that pace for it to be enjoyable, i think it would be a lot harder than sticking a couple of fingers up a vagina...

i never cum by fingers up my vagina!

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Why is there no tit wank option? :impissed:

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why not a bit of both. :yes:

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Dwarfenegger wrote:

BJ's and HJ's are both linked. Whilst giving a good BJ you will be using your hands anyway. And I can guarantee he will appreciate it twice as much.

:yes:
That's what I tend to do and I've had no complaints from him

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Bowjob anyday
Sure we can give ourselves a wank and wil always be better at it cause e do it practically every day

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I find ya make more of a success in pleasuring them easily through BJ. As with HJ, they have a certain way they like it, as they do it to themselves all the time.

BJ is what they look forward to as it's not something they can do to themselves all the time. It's new, it's pleasurably and they just get to lay there waiting to cum. haha

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My bf loves blowjobs - I luv his reaction so I prefer giving them, although I do use my hands too when giving him head

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I prefer a blowjob THEN a handjob to finish me off. But maybe I'm greedy.

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turlough wrote:

boys have to sorta build up to a pace and then maintain that pace for it to be enjoyable, i think it would be a lot harder than sticking a couple of fingers up a vagina...

if that's all you're doing, the girls are probably doing it wrong on purpose to get you back

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StupidGirl wrote:

This is a question for the guys just out of curiosity. At the times where I've not been able to have sex with my boyfriend (such as when I had an infection recently etc) I usually go for giving him either a blowjob or a handjob (or sometimes both) as an alternative. Both seem appreciated, but BJs seem to get a better initial response although hand jobs seem more likely to make him come. I was just wondering, which do you guys prefer as an alternative to normal sex - or do you not have a preference at all?

Blowjobs win hands down (pun intended). I'd probably refuse a handjob from most birds, it's not worth the effort imho.

If a guy wants to slap the sausage, the best person for the job is himself.

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lol well my bf gives himself a HJ while im giving him head, not sure whether i should be offended or not, but it makes things more interesting and saves me a bit of work!

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think him using his hands would irritate me cos would get in my way!!

When i give a hand job i start slowly but never know when to get faster or when to hold tighter or looser or wat!! its complicated
where as blow jobs, well just suck lick do anything really i think theres a lot more room for experiementing and imagination lol rather than jus up n down with a twist here n there lol mayb thats my problem i jus got no idea wat im doin lol

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lexijb wrote:

When i give a hand job i start slowly but never know when to get faster or when to hold tighter or looser or wat!! its complicated

same here so i just let him do it cos he knows wat he likes, i do try sometimes though! but he doesnt complain either way so i guess its all good!

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Both are great, but id probably have to go for handjob mainly (both together serve well as a sex alternative) because i find it more of a turn on being able to kiss, touch, fondle whilst having a handjob...

Peace

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turlough wrote:

is it me or are girls really shite at giving handjobs?

Its Nout Like Your Own Hand :yes:

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HJ while fingering her, slow for ages, both cum at the same time after getting faster

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nicebutdim23 wrote:

i never cum by fingers up my vagina!

i always do!!! my b/fs beta at that than sex