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What specialist would a doctor refer you to?
How are either of these NOT going to involve you telling people in detail what happened?
but i think there is still a question as to whether you could proove it ever happened or not???????
and if you want some support, if you really are that desperate i'm sure you'll be able to get over your fear of talking to someone down the phone!
just to put it in perspective... going to the police... a lot of your support would probably be from victim support - and you'd probably be talking down the phone a lot then anyway.
the no. of the samaritans is 08457 90 90 90 if you do want to talk to someone!
and i think as has already been said all people on here can do and all any of the ask-the-site team can do is point you in the direction of support... like phone nos for the samaritans... etc - you need to understand that. but if you want to open up more or get anything off your chest - write it on the boards - thtas support. and i've found personally (becasue the support in my area is crap beyond belief!) that these boards ARE imo one of the best sources of support anywhere... which says a lot really!
otter.
the doctor would probably reffer me to a councilor.
A councillor is the same as telling Rape Crisis or the Samaritans.
his mum also caught us once i dont know weather she railised what was going on.
they will probably be no evidence on me because ive had a partner for 5 years and have had a baby.
it just rests on weather hes willing to admit it.
What exactly do you want out of this?
simple question... what do you want from all of this?
Some forces are really not good about dealing with rape and abuse. Be careful.
if i dont go tell to police i wil feel guilty if he does it again at least ive told them what hes capable of?!
The police won't believe you. Get some counciling
http://www.rapecrisis.org.uk/helplinenumbers.htm
Samatians - 08457909090
jo@samaritans.org
you are right.
when i went to the police it was 2 different forces which were involved.
passing information between each other.
1 force was so much better than the other.
Get some counciling
http://www.rapecrisis.org.uk/helplinenumbers.htm
Samatians - 08457909090
jo@samaritans.org
Make your own decision.
if you want to talk about how the abuse has affected you and how you feel wrt it, then counselling may help... but again... all you're doing is dreaging up the past... and for what?... i mean, do you actually know what you want?????
http://www.rapecrisis.org.uk/helplinenumbers.htm
Samatians - 08457909090
jo@samaritans.org
tbh given what you've been through with: current pregnancy, drugs and alcholism in the past like you've said, sexual abuse, etc; haven't you ever had any form of counselling, psychiatry, or talks with social workers, or school pastoral workers or anybody in as similar role before now?????!
its a horrible situation for you and we can be sympathetic, but there is little else we can do. the specialists are the best people to advise you on how to move forward with your life.
how do you feel this would benefit you?
man, I must have been in a fucking rubbish mood, sorry.
:yippe: A year, i need to look at the dates of posts, i thought this was recent :razz:
Glad to hear everything went well anyway