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(Before anyone attacks, a 20 y.o. with a 14 y.o. is one thing, two 14 y.o.s is another. Some people seem to confuse the two matters.)
I don't think 15 is childish if the partner is 17 or 18, because the 17/18 yo is childish too. If the 15yo was being porked by a 45 yo then it'd be wrong.
I disagree, people mature a lot between the ages of 15 and 18, 18 is no longer childlike. The 18 year old is in a position where they can exert power and influence on the 15 year old who is still very impressionable. Hence I believe an 18 year old and a 15 year old is wrong.
And yes two 14 year olds would also be wrong, in a different way, children should be allowed to be children, I'd fight to preserve it.
That would be the ideal in their situation, yes.
No, but then I still think 16 is a child. I'd prefer to see more people waiting until they were 18 to have sex.
Raw nerve?
Yes, a very mature and responsible attitude that should be admired. Keep up the good work!
hehe thanx!!!
Oh and by the way, minging! please! use some decent words before writing SHIT like tha fucking dope leave the lad alone if he and his gf feel comfortable at their age then so be it - they will suffer for their consequences. Also, "my lil sisters even contemplating sex it creeps me out" by using the word 'lil' in your sentance signifies your perspective of them so you still think in your mind they are too mature - this lads gf may be 15 but be alot more mature than you. In future please analyse things before you make your comments - when people dont their advice becomes ' minging! '
your display pic ezplains it all - a gunie pig ( not assd because i spelt it wrong im just not interested in wasting my life like moaners like you)
There was no need for that remark.
Oh, it is. You don't realise it when you're 18 though. It's more mature than 15, but not as much as 18-year-olds want to think.
I just want to pat the freshers on the head, they're only bairns.
No you don't.
Shut up and piss off if you're not going to be nice. Or at least come up with an original insult.
And if you're going to try and claim that your boyfriend isn't boning a child, then act with some maturity for the first time in your life. We've had this discussion before, it's getting very tiresome. Learn to watch your mouth, there was no need for that remark.
then act with some maturity for the first time in your life.
have you been there all my life -NO so how the fuck would you know if i havnt been mature AND ACTUALLY THERE WAS to me maybe not to you but it's MY oppinion isn't that what these forums are for?
Last time you posted on here you ended up abusing everyone in sight, just because they dared to say that fifteen-year-olds are children. That's not the behaviour of a mature adult. I hate to break this to you honey, but mentally, emotionally and legally fifteen-year-olds are children. And you aren't doing a very good job of disproving it by acting mature.
Now you don't have to prove that you are mature, because who you choose to fuck is your concern and nobody elses. But I really could do without the pathetic and pointless bickering you bring to every thread you post in.
People condemn children having sex. Learn to deal with it.
Fair point, I know I've changed my outlook somewhat in my three years at uni and at 21 I know I still have growing up to do.
I think that's the reason why young teenagers having sex at an early age. :chin: 16 and below you are still too young. Maybe when you and your partner are serious in a relationship then u can do it. If not forget abt doing it. It's not worth it. Think abt it baby, think abt it
1stly Zella is obviously older than you as you seem hung up on the fact that she used the word minger. Also someone being able to 'Handle their ale' doesn't mean they are more mature. Did you know that the word little can also be used to describe a younger sibling?
Ya know its people like you who make me feel hatrid for the common chav.
but pink_wishes used the word "ming" to describe people in here a few days ago, long before anyone else used such a 'child like word' in another thread
i sincerely hope you never have children as you dont sound mature enough to bring up a goldfish tbh
back on topic i think it should be more the 17 mark personally as i think 16 is a bit too young
regardless of her emotional and sexual maturity it is still against the law to have sex with someone under the age of 16, and is illegal for someone 18 or over to have sex with someone under 18 if they are in a position of responsibility over them (teacher etc)
ignorance is also no defence in the eyes of the law, you may disagree with and dislike the people who have posted comments here but listen to this
i dont care how mature you both think she is, she is still under age you muppets
absolutely!
can we all try to stick to the topic without resorting to abusing one another please? ...pretty please - it's Tuesday morning but it feels like Monday and my head hurts.
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