If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Read the community guidelines before posting ✨
Options
homophobia
Former Member
Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
:wave: iam gay and i just whant to die becuse of homathober i just fell so alone andi want to end my life at high school all i here is ther is that gay :banghead:
0
Comments
are you saying your being bullied at the moment because you are gay? simple answer: f**k them!! try to ignore them... i know its hard, but it is NOT worth letting morons screw up your life.
do you have anyone close to you that you could talk to about how you are feeling and what you are experiencing?
homophobia?
I know it is hard. but I am afraid that what young people do to people they see as 'different'. Killing yourself will only let them win. Do you have a support network i.e. a guidance teacher or someone that looks after you? They will be able to deal with these bullies, as that is all they are.
Talk to your parents to have something done, because why should you suffer because of peoples' intolerance and ignorance.
It will get easier as time goes on, narrow-minded young people eventually [and hopefully] grow up into tolerant and mature adults.
Why are you so sure you are gay, you are only 13 ? At this time hormones and a whole lotta stuff mix up your mind and body and from personal experience can lead to you drawing conclusions.
He's 13? Bit young to be coming out of the closet isn't it? Try talking to the nice people on the gay and lesbian switchboard, i'm sure you can find their number in a phone book. Or try www.need2know.co.uk they have advice on all sorts including bullying and sexuality.
but i'd also say, that if you are having thoughts of "ending your life", the best people to talk to would be the samaritans, their phone no. is 08457 90 90 90 or you can e mail them jo@samaritans.org - its totally confidential.
God bless google!
what happens if he isnt?
To be honest if he is a troll, he couldn't give a toss about what you just posted.
If he isn't a troll then imagine how you would like to dismissed and ignored because you had a problem.
There is absolutely nothing in this post that suggests this guy is a troll, and even if he was there is nothing wrong with giving advice. I would imagine he might be a bit busy dealing with the problem in hand to be coming back and posting here to qualify for your advice.
Also you might want to look at http://www.bgiok.org.uk/ or http://www.gayyouthuk.org.uk/
The others have no reason to make you feel this shit. Talk to a teacher - your sexuality isn't the issue here; the bullies are.
Good luck and PM me if you want anything.
On the topic of the thread... Why do you want to kill yourself? Because you're ashamed or because you're bullied?
No younger than 13 year olds who know they're straight ....
Problem is its a bit small for there to be many gays so not so much acceptance.
If your well hard and Gay, your allright people treat you with respect, If your not hard but likable people treat you OK, If your not either you will probably get a whole heap of abuse.
This type of thing always makes me think of Ronnie Kray who as we all know was well hard and scary, was open about being gay "Boys are best" and "women are allright but you cant beat the real thing"
Funnly enough he got almost no homophobic abuse from people who would normally be very homophobic, must have been due to his sunny disposition.
Its much better being gay in those areas than it used to be, probably he should wait a bit before coming out.
Like anti englist attitude anti Gay attitude tends to be strongest from the "middle" in society is trades labours, the semi-criminal junkie types are more accepting Iv fopund.
All my anti english abuse came from these "middle" types and the criminal hard men have been much more accepting.
ETS:
they both come from wishaw
both joined the same time
both answer posts with smilies and spelling errors
both called brain4...
both have same interests
both born september 29th - but in different years
both apparantly gay
TROLL!
Mr Gangsta rap is back in black nike airs
hell, anyone can have 2 hotmail addresses!
sorry, don't believe you!