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was he only after one thing?
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hi, not sure if this is in the right forum but here goes. i met a bloke last night and went back to his, i was very horny as its been a while and couldnt resist. we did everything but full sex and in the morning he drove me home and we exchanged numbers and said he would come round later. i havent heard anything from him dont want to seem desperate so how long should i leave it before i get in touch or should i just accept he wanted me just for one night? thanx hope someone can help x
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So it doesn't really matter if he rings you or not.
It's up to you. There's no point fucking about thinking "oo will i appear desperate if I ring now, or in two hours, or two days". If you want to ring then just fucking ring. Life's too short.
Why is he a loser? She is saying that she was stupidly horny and wanted a night of fun, so why should he be any different?
We get to her friends place and she invites me in for coffee. She was an attractive girl although not really what I would choose. What the hell I thought if she has the same idea as me, were all adults and we were both horny!!
We of course slept togeather and it was great. We enjoyed the lay in, chatting and cuddles in the morning. She was a really nice girl but just wasnt my type, she kinda picked me and i chose her friend. She gave me her number and asked me to call her.
Maybe its right to call and tell someone that you don't to get into anything and let them know whats going on, its just hard to find a way of doing so. Even more so if the other party is a nice person. I was a wimp and should have explained to her somehow. Maybe she wasnt bothered anyway I guess I will never know.
We both enjoyed the night I hope she put it down to a night of fun which we both wanted as I did.
I would say this guy has done the same as I did and probably feels bad about it. If he calls then cool but dont chase him. In my experience if you are with someone you really like you are calling back at the earliest chance. If he leaves it ages and then calls you up one night then you know what he is after so avoid unless you only want the same thing.
If its what you want then just make sure you play safe and you have it in your head its just sex which could only be as long as he finds a GF no more.
If this is the case this guy owes me big time lol
perhaps that's just me!
i know easier said than done, but give him a day or 2. and then if you want to txt, txt. chances are though you'll txt him tomorrow. i know i would!
Its simple really. If you like him, text him, ring him whatever. Whatever you do dont play this ridiculous game of waiting a number of days because you think it'll look desperate.
From a blokes point of view i like when the girl texts, it shows she's interested. If she doesnt, i assume she's not. I dont subscribe to this desperate-ness argument. Girls, bit of advice. If you dont call we assume you aint bothered.
Stargalaxy - your posts are moronic, clueless and show you have no idea whatsoever when it comes to the opposite sex. Sometimes i think you're female for christ sake. Will you stop sitting on the pissing fence and making out all blokes are arseholes. If you hadnt noticed, this is a sex board. As you have no experience with the opposite sex id suggest you steer clear, you make yourself look pathetic
So. Love, if you fancy him, wanna shag, wanna go out, ring him. If he's not interested its not the end of the world, its life. You win some, you lose some, its how you respond that matters.
Good Luck hun!
So YOU said on saturday if he hasnt contacted her by today then thats it?
Just tell me why someone should accept advice from someone who has never had any action whatesoever.
You have no clue what you are talking about.
What if the geezer really likes her but doesnt want to call cos he's nervous about it?
What if he's on holiday or something.
You astound me, you really do.
Keep your ridiculous advice to yourself
:banghead:
Having said that, I hope you prove my theory wrong and he was just trying to be cool.