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Does she like me?
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Hi, you probably get lots of these but here goes.
A few weeks ago a new girl started at my job(large department store).
The first day that she was there I noticed her staring at me a fair bit.
The second day, while she was near me, she just walked over and introduced herself. Now, I thought this was strange. I'm not at all used to girls just coming up and introducing themselves and I thought it was a very bold and confident thing for her to do.
Since then we've been talking a lot and I get on really well with her.
I fancy her, I'm completly comfortable around her and the only downside is I'm 23 while she's 18. But anyway I like her.
But I can't work out if she likes me or is just a very friendly person.
She's always very pleased to see me, always has a big smile on her face when she sees me. If I'm not working the same shifts as her she always comes up and asks where I was.
Now, you could just put that down to friendliness but she's also started doing something else that has completley thrown me.
Maybe about two or three times a day, she'll come up and touch me. Pretend to punch me on the arm, poke me in the ribs etc.
So, I just can't read the situation. She leaves the job after Christmas, so if something is going to happen it'll have to be soon.
What I'm really asking is - from that very patchy description of what's happened - would you say she liked me?
A few weeks ago a new girl started at my job(large department store).
The first day that she was there I noticed her staring at me a fair bit.
The second day, while she was near me, she just walked over and introduced herself. Now, I thought this was strange. I'm not at all used to girls just coming up and introducing themselves and I thought it was a very bold and confident thing for her to do.
Since then we've been talking a lot and I get on really well with her.
I fancy her, I'm completly comfortable around her and the only downside is I'm 23 while she's 18. But anyway I like her.
But I can't work out if she likes me or is just a very friendly person.
She's always very pleased to see me, always has a big smile on her face when she sees me. If I'm not working the same shifts as her she always comes up and asks where I was.
Now, you could just put that down to friendliness but she's also started doing something else that has completley thrown me.
Maybe about two or three times a day, she'll come up and touch me. Pretend to punch me on the arm, poke me in the ribs etc.
So, I just can't read the situation. She leaves the job after Christmas, so if something is going to happen it'll have to be soon.
What I'm really asking is - from that very patchy description of what's happened - would you say she liked me?
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dont lose this chance!
SBG
Ok, so I'm still confused about the whole thing but I'm thinking of asking her out. Problem is, I have no idea how.
I don't drink so I'm not going to ask her out for one. I've never asked a girl out before and have no idea what to say. Even going through it in my mind I can't even hear myself asking her out.
That is not a downside, especially as its hardly a big difference.
Sounds to me like she does loke you, build up the confidence to appraoch ehr and ask her out for a drink, even though you dont drink yourself you can still have a juice or something else.
I know what it feels like. Just do it and you will fel all the better for it if it all works out
Everytime I went to ask her, I bottled it.
Either that, or there was always someone around.
I never even got the chance to say goodbye to her. She just kind of left.:(
I won't have another chance now. I could try and get her phone number either from someone at work, or the phone book. Any suggestions?
Is there any chance of just seeing her around now shes left? If not and you really like her i'd suggest doing what you can to contact her and find out once and for all if she likes you or not.
Sometimes you goota chase after something you want until you have your final answer.
Hmm, yeah thats probably useless information
Unless a miracle happens and she comes in on monday, I won't see her again.
pray she comes in then. Alternatively can you really not do anything else to contact her ?
Dont give up so easily
:eek:
Do you think I should ask her for this girls phone number? I don't know if she'd have it or not.
Or do you think I should just let this go?
Bear in mind that I haven't said a word to this girl so me going up and asking for her friends phone number would be completly out of the blue.
In any case I'm sure the girl in question will be quite flattered that you asked her out.
Oh yeah and there's nothing that will eat away at you more than a missed opportunity and a "what if.....?". I know because I have been there too many times. So...
*NUDGE*
*NUDGE*
You might never get the oppurtunity again and who knows, she might feel the same.
And.......
she didn't have it.
I should have asked her friend if this girl liked/would have gone out with me but I didn't and today was her last day.
So, my last option is the phone book. I've said it before but this girl lives in a very small town. So should I just go through the phone book for people with her name and ring them up until I get her?
And this is really for the women of the board - how would you feel about that? If some guy just rang your house number one day?
If it was me, and a girl phoned up, I'd be delighted. But would you like it? Would it freak you out?
I dont know whether he did or not though.
Just do it theres nothing to lose and the longer you leave it the more wierd it will seem that your contacting her
I find it interesting that some of you girls are saying you'd find it flattering, when i've told a girl i like her it hasnt exactly ever gone to plan, ie shes not found it flattering.. Probs just me then lol
just do it. DO IT! if you dont you will be kicking yourself, because you will never know whether you could of found her and lived happily ever after.
Have you thought about asking the people you work for. Surely they will have her contact details somewhere.
I've also checked yahoo and msn messenger on the off-chance that she might be on that.