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Being gay is in no way a failing on your part Lukesh. It is NOT something you should feel guilty about.
Please ignore anyone who suggests there is anything wrong with being gay.
In fact, twat them across the face if they ever suggest it, because they'd definitely need a good slap.
And if you are indeed surrounded by people who are criticising you for it in any way, then it must be hell for you.
I'd suggest changing sceneries mate, even if you think you're too young to leave your parents' nest. No one should have to put up with bigotry. Not every town and city is like that. I'd strongly suggest moving to Manchester, London or similar city where you are very rarely going to have to put up with bigots.
I'd suggest Brighton actually, its a bit of a haven.
Nah. Its definatly a choice. Ive known people that were gay but went through therapy and changed.
there is nothing wrong in the fact, that, some are confused and dont know wether they are gay or not, in fact most people wether conciously or sub-conciously have during adolecense experienced thoughts of being gay.
lukesh, listen mate, try not to let peoples narrowmindedness get you down.
okay your gay, its you that needs to be happy not anybody else.
i have many gay friends some of whom have denied for many years that they were not gay then, when they came out sure, people had shit to say they said the secret not to pretend and most of all smile, dont let people know that its getting to you(exept when you need help and advice) then they will get bored soon enough and fault find elsewhere.
just ensure that you are happy with who you are.........
tell me to go jump if you want....but what exactly is confusing you? wether you are gay or not? wether other people judgements are confusing you?
im not taking piss, like i said i have had many friend in similar situations....
personaly (i know its hard) but you just got to ignore other people, if they cant accept you for who you are, then its their loss not yours, its them that are confused as they dont understand or refuse to understand why people prefer the same sex.
dont mess your head up worrying about them, get yourself out and about to find likeminded people, you'll find that they have good advice, as they have been through all this themselves.....
but this is the topic. other people choices seem to be bringing your sexuallity into question within yourself.
What a load of bollocks.
wen i was unsure i asked myself the most simple question, what or whom has turned me on in my lifetime, and it was only girls, and for some im sure its the other way, and nothing will change that
i do think maybe to brian molko though
but on the other hand my mate she was confused and half her mates are gay or lesbian (not bi) and one of the lesbos fancied her, and kept trying to convince her that cause she dont know she must be a dyke, which well isnt true, she should of jsut been left to her own devices, once that girl had her way, she didnt want anymore, and my mate realised she was mainly straight cause she fancied me more and some other guys