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For the last few months I have started to feel really down. I thought it was because I wasn't doing anything and I was bored. But I've started to feel miserable all the time. Well when I'm with my friends I get giddy to cover up my problems! You've all seen it on here. NOBODY, knows my problems and how I feel inside and now it's getting difficult to cover up!
When I'm alone I feel more depressed and I feel worse when there is nothing on TV. Is it just boredom or depression? I took the online test and got a 48. What should I do?
Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
When I'm alone I feel more depressed and I feel worse when there is nothing on TV. Is it just boredom or depression? I took the online test and got a 48. What should I do?
Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
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I suppose it could be boredom, but with a score of 48 I would doubt it.
What is your GP like? Do you get on with him/her?
If this feeling carries on, no matter what you do, the sooner you see someone about it, the sooner you'll feel better. I know that's easier said than done.
You could have a look at http://www.depressionalliance.org they have a board similar to this one & Luka has recommended people to that site in the past.
If you've read my moaning post you'll know that I'm on my way down again, but I'm determined not to go too far this time b4 I get help. I didn't do anything last time & it took me over a year to come back up again. Don't make the same mistake, I certainly won't (I hope).
j9
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I have no idea what my GP is like cause I haven't been for about 10 years <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> I don't know if it is boredom but I do feel worse when I'm bored and thats why I come on here and try and cheer myself up.
Don't take life seriously because you can't come out of it alive
I think u shud tell ur gp whats botherin u, then they can suggest necesarry steps to makin urself feel better.
My depression started off as what u described (not sayin u got depression but its a possiblity)
I just left it coz i was too scared, and it spiraled out of control until i was on the verge of suicide.
Don't let it get that bad.
The more sand that escapes through the hourglass of time, the clearer we should be able to see through it.
I've been reading a lot of posts by other people, but never felt that i had anything worth saying (hence no advice from me for a while) until i came across people talking about depression.
I have always been a big fan of the ostrich approach ( hand in sand, nothing wrong with me etc) until now when i feel i am at the point of no return. I always thought depression was something that happened to other people - and it did to a lot of my friends, so much so that i felt i was driving them to it!
I've never felt suicidal and i don't i just feel hopeless and helpless. I've always had the impression that everyone else has worse probs them me -which they do.
In june i graduate i have very important exams coming up and a lot of expectation on me, all my life i have done things to please other people and now i feel a failure because i can't do it anymore.
I guess maybe i feel so low because i am stressed, i look at other people who seem really happy and i could never imagine being like that.
To be honest i don't know what i am trying to say, but you know sometimes you just need to write stuff down, the thing is i used to have an eating disorder, which i have had under control for about 5 years, but now all the same feelings of disgust for myself and for food are resurfacing and i am a bit scared of what is going on in my head.
sorry, i haven't made much sense.
The above though should be done in addition to consulting your GP, he will probably prescribe an anti-depressant and as it sounds in your case bought on by a traumatic incident / incidents in your life arrange for some counselling.
Depression is an evil illness it knows no boundries, and is terribly debillitating. Sadly it can't always be cured, but controlled, but IMHO I think with a course of Anti-d's and therapy you can and will beat this, if there's anything else I can do to help, you got my yahoo, icq numbers, and my e-mail address is posted above.
Take it easy friend
Luk
The river is wide and oh so deep. I've been walking around in tears, No answers arethere to get. Cause between this world and eternity there is a face I hope to see
I finally spoke to my mum about the way I have been feeling and she replied with "Were moving soon so you can put it all behind you" and that was all the support I got from her. She just blames it on my age but my own mother has no idea what is going on in my head.
I left school almost 2 years ago and I still have nightmares about the bullying I had and now I have nightmares about getting mugged.
I just feel like I want to explode! I have so much angerand tension built up inside me that one day it could be so overwhelming that I lose control and do something I may regret.
Anyway I'm going to make an appointment with my GP in the morning whether my mum likes it of not cause I'm almost 18 and its my life and I will lead it as I want!
Thank you everyone for listening!!!!
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i think u r makin the rite desicion seein ur gp, parents jus don't understand sumtimes do they?!?!
ask ur gp to put u in touch with a councellor, they can try to get to the root of ur problems and help find ways for u to deal with it.
I hope everything works out 4u
((((((mark)))))
Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
I spoke to my mum again and I'm definately gonna call a GP tomorrow and see what advice he has to offer.
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And if you don't get the answer that you're happy with, then go to another GP.
Sorry I've only just read this Mark, I'll be around tomorrow when you need to talk.
{{{{{{{{{{{Mark}}}}}}}}}}}}
I think you really need to talk it over with a counsellor.
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
My mum said there is a new GP and he's really nice! I hope so!! Thanks everyone for the advice!! Its all very much appreciated!
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(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((mark))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) just coz i think you need a hug! <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
hope your doc is some help, better than most of mine anyway! <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif">
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
I'm sorry to hear things are getting difficult, as I said to you outside the academy, you know where I will be if you need to talk, Cause I many not fully understand the way you feel I do have a pretty good idea.
You are making a brave step by seeing your gp, he will possably put you an anti depressant which does not mean you will be on it for life which I know is a big fear many sufferes of depression first have, A-D's are generally given as a short term treatment. He/she will probably arrange for some sort of therapy (such as counselling) to help you come to terms with the traumas you have suffered, and learn to cope with them in ways that won't result in further depression. I can assure you it won't be easy but the rewards outwiegh the drawbacks.
If you need further information Depression Alliance has a vast range of information including contacts for their drop in support groups, exellent message boards and a chat room where you can meet other suferes who will be able to offer some support and advice. If you want to go have a look sometime please do, if you see Riverwide around either posting or in the chat room give me a shout.
Take care mate, if you need anything you know where I am.
Al
The river is wide and oh so deep. I've been walking around in tears, No answers arethere to get. Cause between this world and eternity there is a face I hope to see
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I made an appointment to see my GP for next thursday and my mum is going to phone victim support tomorrow to get a counsellor.
Hopefully after the court case is over I can start to look forward and enjoy my life!!!! Thanks Emma (GFM), Al(Luka), Janine(J9) and David (turtle) and everyone else who has helped me! I don't know what I would have done if it wasn't for you guys! I never realised how many people suffered from depression!
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Good to hear this Mark, Good luck !!!
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Mark}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Take care
Al
The river is wide and oh so deep. I've been walking around in tears, No answers arethere to get. Cause between this world and eternity there is a face I hope to see
I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
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How does that make you feel Mark?
You'd best get on that phone 1st think Mark, or else I'll be cross <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
We've had a letter, the family psych is gonna be contacting us within 3 months lol.
Can't do anything about my problem till after that, but I'll get it sorted if you get yourself sorted, promise <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Good luck Mark.
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
(((((((((((((((mark)))))))))))))))
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
I had no idea you felt this way mark! I really hope things get better for you
((((((((((((marky)))))))))))
love CHEEKy
Who the F do you think you are talking to a respected member of the comunity like that? Firstly with any signs of depression you should always consult a gp, who can start initial treatment and send a patient on a referal for more treatment in this case it has been recomended that Broken goes for some counselling, he has been through quite a nasty incident which he needs to shed, but I suppose you haven't read the whole post through have you cheeky ?.
Mark you are doing the right thing, so don't listen to this Cheeky git. {{{{{{{{Mark}}}}}} stick with things, they can only get better <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">.
Cheeky if you think you're gonna get away with trying to be controversial, I suggest you keep it away from the health boards.
The river is wide and oh so deep. I've been walking around in tears, No answers arethere to get. Cause between this world and eternity there is a face I hope to see
(((Mark))) I hope things brighten up for you <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
You are making sweeping assumptions based on supposition nowhere did broken state he was on medication to stop or otherwise. He saw his GP who put him intouch with a counsellor to help him address the issues that have bought this wonderful young man to his current situation. Before such generalisations are made and advice is dispenced (as good intentioned as it may be) may I suggest you read a thread carefully. People posting in the health board are asking for advice for situations that are of sensitive nature and require thought before a post is made. I am pretty sure most of the regulars who post here would agree that with this particular forum (the health board) that a reply is not just bashed out, thought is applied and carefull reading and understanding of the issue is first applied. Please bear that in mind.
The river is wide and oh so deep. I've been walking around in tears, No answers arethere to get. Cause between this world and eternity there is a face I hope to see
Cheeky you haven't got a clue about me! For one a GP knows more than you do! A GP will listen to you and they will know if its a hormone, stress or whatever problem. They will be able to refer you to a councellor if its a mental problem or put you on medicatioon if its a hormone problem.
I don't cover it up with them! I just choose not to tell them because when i am with my friends I want to have a good time and forget my problems
And yours are?
Didn't you say earlier that only people who know me can help with my problem? Do you know me? Do you know about my past? I'm not scared! I don't go out with friends because I'm normally too tired in the week cause of work and college. But I do have allot of friends!
Obviously you haven't read my posts cause you would know what has happened in the past and what I have to look forward to next week. But there will be somebody I care a great deal about who will be there to hold my hand <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
ROFLOL you don't even know me and there are lots more people I'd talk to before I talk to you. My GP being one!
and you don't understand me!
99.9% of it is!
Again, you haven't read my posts cause you would know that I'm not on medication.
Again your not my GP or my friend and you know f**k all about me and therefor you are in no situation to give me this kind of advice!
read the post properly I AM NOT ON MEDICATION
I never said you wasn't entitled to your opinion and I'm entitled to mine but I am not going to lower myself to your level!
A bit of advice when you want to take somebody on in an argument on TheSite get your facts right
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I would have stood up for you If I'd been here Mark, but sadly my computer was sick <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
I haven't been here since early friday cos of that & other stuff <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
I haven't read many of this new guy's posts, but I'll have a look soon, maybe he/she is a troll?
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5