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girls - how much do you discuss with your friends?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
just wondering girls, how much intimate stuff do you discuss with you friends? your boyfriend's size, moves etc? shar only good details? share embarassing details as well? etc should guys be worried about how much girls talk?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i discuss certain things with my closest female mates - such as any problems or worries. but i dont go round and say stuff like "my b.f's dick is so mnay inches long+his fave positions are this, this and this" Waaay too personal in my opinion!
    id tell them some stuff if they asked, but nothing that would make my boyfriend feel embaressed.
    SBG
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i don't. they don't need to know.

    we chat generally about sex, but not really anything specific to our other halves. i think that's kinda unfair.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *gone*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont really discuss sex with my friends in any great detail.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    the three of you who have already posted seem like nice people..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sorry - 4
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I tell my closest friend just about everything and she does the same to me. Sometimes it feels better to talk about any worries, problems ect that we have. We don't tend to brag to each other about how good/big ect our boyfriends are though...that'd just be a bit strange
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I only tell my closest friends some details usually just what we've tried/where we've done it. I also share my worries/insecurities. Friends are also good for tips.But I never tell them what he's done if its bad or embarrassing. One of my best friends told us all the size of her boyfriend, was nothing to be ashamed off but don't think he appreciated us all knowing that intimate detail.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well what would you expect. guys dont have the power to embarass girls in that way, but the worst a guy could do is boast about what stuff he's done with the girl, which i would think is pathetic but i think girls embarassing guys in that way is quite mean
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if i have a problem, i'll tell my best mate
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Without this whole story sounding pervy...

    I studied childcare last year at college, me n my classmates talked near enough about everything. We were a very dirty bunch n everything seemed to be sex related :p

    I can honestly tell ya we were worse than the lads. We talked about what we had done at the weekend, what positions we had tried etc. I started that year as a virgin so all the stuff i had ever tried was new to me n of course they were all too keen to hear about it.

    We discussed where we've had it, we talk about orgasms, taste of cum, vibrators, lesbian sex (we had lesbians in our class), who we'd most like to get off with in the class (all girls mind u)

    As alot of ppl have said they didnt discuss size and thts one thing we didnt do, altho the odd sarcy comment like (hung like a horse etc) but we never actually told each other how big our boyfs were.

    I miss those mates, dont see em often but they changed me for the good i think. I used to be very embarrassed to speak the truth but tht whole class was so open about their feelings and experiences they ruled!!

    XxX
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by spongebobsgirl
    i dont go round and say stuff like "my b.f's dick is so mnay inches long+his fave positions are this, this and this" Waaay too personal in my opinion!
    id tell them some stuff if they asked, but nothing that would make my boyfriend feel embaressed.
    SBG

    Yeah exactly.

    If the topic comes up i talk about myself rather than my boyfriend, ie what i like/think etc. Also if my friends are asking for advice i don't mind talking about it then, it is always a more general thing than 'oh me and whatsit has sex 56 times last night in so and so postition and i came 789 times'

    actually thinking about it som of my friends are like that...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My closet friend we speak about things we worry about just so we both reasure each other basically, nothing to embarass anyone, its just nice to know that we can talk about worries we both have :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    squishter

    he he, you wouldnt happen to be a Tauntons Student would you :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Martin_Bashir
    squishter

    he he, you wouldnt happen to be a Tauntons Student would you :p

    No i went to a college called totton college, i have heard of tauntons tho, where is it? Is it coz their childcare department is dirty as well?
    XxX
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i talk to my mates about a lot of stuff, but i dont tell them what he does, or specifically about my man. but i think its our duty to share tips, what we find feels good etc.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think me and my best mate talk about stuff like that too much.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No i went to a college called totton college, i have heard of tauntons tho, where is it? Is it coz their childcare department is dirty as well?

    college as a whole never mind the department :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my close friends and i all tell each other every detail of our lives...
    therefore, all the details of our sex lives are included...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I tell them nothing and I expect that they will have the same respect for me and not tell me anything of theirs. Cuz I don't give a fuck.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Me and my friends talk about virtually everything! I think we're all just really close so i dont think its strange! The first thing we'll ask when one of us has a new guy is 'how big are they?!' Just like when we were younger the question used to be 'are they a good kisser?' same thing surely?

    I have one friend who i tend to tell most things though, we talk about everything, share embarassing stories and good stories! think we're just really close mates though.:D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I love talking about sex, so i'm open with friends male and female.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i talk to my mates about it. sometimes in graphic detail. i would never tell them anything embarrassing or bad about a partner though
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by kaffrin
    i don't. they don't need to know.

    we chat generally about sex, but not really anything specific to our other halves. i think that's kinda unfair.

    always good to respect someone elses privacy. would be kind of embarrassing if you were talking about dick size and then he met your friends
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't at all with my friends.

    In a way with my closest friends I'd like to be able to sometimes but out of my two closest friends, one is male and tends to want to know nothing about my boyfriend in that respect and the other had a very strict upbringing to do with sex so it's just not discussed.

    Would be handy sometimes though if I needed advice.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We joke about it, but nothing serious really, unless it is serious, like one of my mates was bleeding for days after sex, we spoke about that as she needed some advice.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have a lot of female friends and most of them will describe things in some detail.

    I have been told very vivd details about, First period, Tit wanks, Sex (in several positions), blow jobs etc. Im hoping that all this information will help me become a better person for any future partners.

    Im unaware of women who generally dont have friends that they tell everything to however intimate

    .matt
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    a tit wank, what the hell is a tit wank?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You put your ding ding dong between her clevage, and she tra la las you with her bosom.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by goofball
    a tit wank, what the hell is a tit wank?
    One day maybe you will get the oppertunity to find out.
    After the question i do feel liek saying awwww obviously u havnt watched enough educational movies i.e. porn
    .matt
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