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I know you're feeling really down about this but there are options out there for you, take a look at this Q&A and this one too, they may be able to help you.
CB
I've read both of those in the past, and although they don't completely apply to myself, they do have some suggestions. But some of those suggestions don't seem to work (like talking to people I wouldn't normally talk to) others I can't find a way to do (like searching the internet for local clubs, no results for me) and the rest are under my general fear (which I do believe is founded) that people will be turned away once they get to know me a bit better.
CB
Actually, I smiled... and i'm not very ok, so smile is good...
hmmm where are you from? I bet it is better than here... I mean... worse than here, only THE hell... and I can handle it, so I'm still thinking you are just not searching in the right place...
btw, it wasn't my best test
I'm from Greece. I don't know what's it like there, but it can't be worse than here...
Imagine... I was... about 2 months without seeing any tv or read news paper...
Today... on the news paper... there was a HHHHUUUUGGGGGEEEEEEEEE mistake on spelling... even a 10 year old child would write it the right way...
on tv... ugh :eek2: they were talking like they were totaly ignorant, like they haven't been in school...
believe me... Greece isn't any worse than Portugal... believe me... I just wouldn't live there, because the language is strange
As for what you say, some people here are worse... Though some of course are better. Sometimes you see the same kind of crazy (and sad) stuff that you'd think could happen only in the USA. I might say later, I have to go now.
But you have to do something to solve your problem... your country is better then mine and you can't change it
ok that's fair....
and i think the problem is.... in your mind!!!! you think too much
did anyone tell you that? they are always saying that to me
there are a million of options... ONE have to be right... right?
and tk u again :P
And I know I think too much. They haven't told me as far as I can remember, but I realized it on my own. Still, I don't think that's the problem in this case. I don't believe in coincidence, so if the same thing (with little variations) has happened again and again, even when I was purely optimistic about me, there has to be something wrong.
maybe you are in the wrong country!!!!! I think i am
people who don't like you for the person you are aren't your friends... why bother with them?
I know that's easy for me to say.... but it could have been that you made an error of judgement calling them your friends originally...
friendship is a two way thing... take your time. You're at uni now, right? You don't have to be the most popular kid in class anymore.
Don't get obsessed over the 'trust' thing.... you may end up building it up into a massive issue. You only truely know if you can trust someone when they come through for you when you really need it. Trust isn't always the most important thing... someone to talk to is wonderful, but you don't need to be telling people the contents of your soul. And sometimes other people just can't deal with that level of honesty. I feel i'm not explaining myself very well, but I hope you understand what I mean.
You're 19 right? just have fun.... life's too short to be obsessing over every last detail.
I realise I may not have been that helpful, but I hope you feel better about things soon.
soph. x
I believe I always said "friends" (with "). But they all seemed to like me at first, that's the matter. And that I haven't found anyone to like me truly.
I'm not trying to be the "most popular kid" or anything; I haven't tried to be that since I was 13 or 14. I'm only trying to find people to hang out with. I'm so jealous of whoever says "I was out with my friends and..." etc.
But, "having fun" isn't spending all my time alone thinking about what I could be doing but can't, right?
Thanks to you too for answering.
I feel that I'm in the wrong country too... if that is any confort to you!
...This made the front page???
It doesn't really bother me for now, they're just a bunch of assholes (though it might begin to be annoying if it catches on). But it might just be what I was looking for: If I'm stupid like that, it's something people don't see right away, but when they do, of course they don't want to spend time with me...
don't make me answer that, ok? if you think and say you are stupid, you'll be stupid and that is not what we want, right?
LOL... so how old are them? 5???? xD ignore them, they just want to feel superior to you and to others... they just don't know that superiority pass by being "adult" not a child, I mean, in your age... (i'm a bit younger)
Look, I don't know you to say this, but maybe they don't want to spend time with because, as you say, they're just a bunch of assholes...
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Yeah, that's what I thought. A couple of them must be 22 or more, and they're acting like they're less than 16? (Insert here a rant about how being 18 means absolutely nothing about how mature you are.)
No, no, no. The ones that do what I said are a completely different group than the ones I spend time there with. Unless you're saying that everyone I know is an asshole, in which case I'm doomed.
Almost everyone here are assholes, but I don't think I'm doomed...
my brother and I were having the same discussion.. like this:
H: is there anyone who cares about loyalty and trust any more.
Me: i think other people get hurt to, its just that they get over it quicker and are more thick skinnd about loyalty.
its huge to me, i am always ready to put others before my interests. wb. cf:neoNero and me
alex
The best way for you to be able to trust others is for you to be trustworthy yourself. Someone once told me that life is like a mirror it reflects back to you who and what you are.
I like that. It helped me to see that it didn't matter what others were like, what really mattered was what I was like. Trouble was I didn't like what I saw in the mirror. It is a hard pill to swallow but I realised that I couldn't expect others to like me or trust me if I didn't like or trust myself.
Maybe that's a good place to start. Look at yourself and see what there is that is good and pure and true and make it shine. If it is only your smile then share that, smile always. That's what I did.
I'm sorry, but here, things aren't just that way...
But on the other hand, he only talks about cars (which I barely care about) and computers (which I am interested in, but I want more from my life).
And there's someone else who seems to be enough of a "friend" and we did schedule to meet once during summer (when we were both in the same city) but now he's working every day and I don't think he has any time...