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People That Never Go Out
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What do you think of people that basically go to work and come home and basically never do anything else?
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But it is their choice.
Personally, i used to go out clubbing 2 or 3 times a week - but now i prefer to go maybe just once a month because otherwise i get bored of it.
What if it's not their choice.. like if they suffer from extreme shyness?
You didn't give that as a scenario, or qualify your original question.
You staying in does not depend on other people, you can go out on your own you know?
It's hard to go many places by yourself if you are always alone. It feels like evryone is staring and sees the loneliness, 'tis hard to explain.
need to know people to know people springs to mind, lots of people even if they r nice people, think "if hes here alone must be something up with him"
it canbe really hard for some people, im like that like half the time ie at uni i just drift from person to person
I used to hate going anywhere on my own - wouldn't even walk to the local shop, which is literally 2 minutes walk from my house. But I still wouldn't say that was because I felt lonley, I think I lacked confidence.
I think people who spend their lives worrying about what other people are up to are rather sad. I wouldn't waste a minute of my time thinking about a person who was out alone because to be honest, I don't care... why should I? I think it is rather pathetic to think 'if he's here alone muct be something up with him' and people who think that need to get their own life rather than worrying about what others are up to!
I often go out to places on my own, if I waited for my friends to come with me I'd never go anywhere except to the local pub and back and since I barely drink much anyway that would be a complete waste of time and money for me!!!
I do however also organise events and have my own website to do social stuff in London so if I feel like doing people stuff I send out an email and it goes to over 900+ people and people who want to join in come along. Tomorrow doing a Salsa Dancing event in London and expecting 40 people to be there.
Great Portland Street tomorrow at 7pm and if you wanna come tomorrow PM me cos I'm let a few guys in for free - cos I have many more girls then guys!!!
but im sure the few guys will have fun
Well I'm looking for maybe 2 or 3 more guys to come along tomorrow so if you know anyone get intouch!! BTW did I mention food is included?
Nope but if you were rich enough you could hire some!!
(Not real friend BTW - just temping ones)
Godod luck ,the fact yuo are not out is a catastrophinc loss to the siocal scene
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