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Originally posted by Mel-H Have you tried a weekend hobby? I know that it's going to take a lot of effort on your part, but it will be worth it in the end. What about volunteering, doing something good for other people will probably make you feel better about yourself and give you confidence. What about a club like mountain bikeing? Horse riding? Marshal arts? Anything where you are likely to interact with people.
I understand that people haven't met your expectations in the past. Letting that get you will only make you unhappy... have you tried asking some people ... if they want to go out for a drink / organise a race night/ go clubbing. if you get knocked back dont let it dishearten you just pick yourself up and start again.
Originally posted by morrocan roll to be blunt ..it doesn't sound like your willing to actualy put much effort in yourself but are expecting others to do it all.
you first go through the small talk ...the occasional drink that means nothing at all ...you help someone out ...with words or time or even money ...dare i say.
you give people your time ...you give people ...yourself. with no expectations or rules.
that way ...people begin to get to know you ...understand you ...discover you care about people ...
Originally posted by NeoNero Evening class is a nice idea...if i had anything i wanted to lear, i dont have the time nor the energy either, after work i just wana sit down and do stuff without pressure.
Working in a bar is not an option, i like money...even if i have no one to spend it on/with.
I dont want people i just chat to when i see them i want proper friends who call me and care and txt me and go out places with me.
Its not easy making friends, you cant just walk up to someone in a club and say 'wana be my friend'.
Even having a girl like me would cheer me up, but none of them do, they just tell me how great and wonderful i am and how badly treated i am by everyone then bugger off never to be seen again.
Originally posted by morrocan roll is anyone going to follow any of this stuff up or what then?
Originally posted by Kermit
Takes more guts than I've got.