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Girls and Condoms
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Just a thought but here's a question for you girls .. does it actually feel much different for you if a guy is wearing one or not and if so how?
And also do you have a preference ? i.e. normal, studded, ribbed, etc?
And also do you have a preference ? i.e. normal, studded, ribbed, etc?
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All I can feel is the rubber of the condom and it just feels like a dildo. I like a penis to feel like a penis.
that's what i think, if only everyone was std free i'd be much happier
Of course Id rather not wear them not so much due to the loss of sensation but, because you miss out on the ultimate pleasure of cumming deep inside a girl, that for me is the main loss of a condom.
(well no I got it 2nd hand and it came with it but you get the point)
You feel much closer without a condom and it often feels different when they cum too
Overall, it does feel slightly different (I guess drier with a condom), but I don't mind how it feels...
Psychologically I prefer it without, it's nice to feel closer physically...
but generally it lasts longer with them
I prefer not to use condoms but its definitely a psychological thing rather than a physical thing. I dont get as much out of it if I know my mans pleasure is reduced, but if youre not in a long term relationship then condoms are a must, and you really shouldnt be knowing about the difference, as that means youve already been too risky.
I wish they hadnt stopped all the high profile AIDs campaigns, because it seems people have forgotten all too quickly.
What about if they are in a relationship with that person and are using other forms of contraception and/or were virgins when they met and had been tested for std's and such.
If you are in a monogamous relationship i don't see the problem?
When your going to have sex with someone for the first time theyve gonna have had sex with other people, you never know what they might have, alarm bells should start ringing in your head.
and no we're not being stupid or putting our health at risk.
James hadn't slept with anyone before me, and i'd only been with one person and had a test after breakign up with him due to a nasty lie he told me
plus, i'm on the pill so no pregnancy
If adequate contraception is being used other than condoms and both partners have been tested and pronounced sti free there's no real problem. Your viewpoint i feel is very old fashioned and self biased due to your situation.
1 partner could easily be shagging someone else with something
I know its a depressing viewpoint, but its better than thinking u can trust someone then u find out that u cant and that u have a disease/infection
yeah thats fine, thats kinda what i meant about why i dont, didnt explain very well.
What situation is that?! Please do tell me as i am very curious as to what you think this is.
There is nothing wrong with thinking people who sleep with others who they know nothing about there history ie if they have anything., is stupid. Its common sense!
I was talking about people who go out with people & sleep with them without knowing, then going on to the next, without knowing ect.
Thankyou
You mean even if you get married you'd continue using them?
One benefit of NOT using them is that if two people's bodies get used to each other through transfer of bodily fluids over a long period of time it's sometimes possible for one partner to donate an organ such as a kidney to the other even if they're not a perfect match.
yes even when married
i would never trust somebody 100%
then i doubt you will ever get married
Does that mean you never plan to have kids either?
ha, good job i dont believe in marriage then :thumb:
And nope, i also never want kids
god, exactly.
everyone always harps on about how romantic it is without, and how 'close' it makes you and blah blah blah. and falling asleep afterwards in each other's arms, how precious, how lovely.
yeah, until you wake up and have to peel yourselves apart and then spend the next half hour picking bits of ming off yourself, cause getting in the shower just makes it harder to get off.
not my my idea of romance, let me tell you.
i most certainly do
age has nothing to do with it
i am a fully developed adult
with a thing called a personal opinion, take note
I'm 19 and have no intentions of getting married or having kids. Well at least not anytime soon. I mean I don't know how I'll feel in 10 years time. But for now it's a no-no