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What do guys really like to see us wear in bed and girls what do u like to wear?
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Ive had this habbit since the beginning of july and i is buying sexy looking underwear. First i bought a basque and and tiny g string. My boyfriend was in shock he just couldn't keep away but it didnt stay on for long
Since then i have been buying more n more of they sexy thongs, see through gowns etc! Tell me does it really work for men & ladies do u feel confident when u wear them?
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Since then i have been buying more n more of they sexy thongs, see through gowns etc! Tell me does it really work for men & ladies do u feel confident when u wear them?
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I am surprised with my new ambition to show off my body, when i 1st met my boyfriend i had to have sex in the dark and then make him hide his face whilst i put my dressing gown on.
Do u reckon its the whole confidence thing that's making me so obsessed with underwear, i mean its not like i wear it 4 a long time. Altho this dancing stuff would mean a better view of what i wear right?
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Sounds like you got the right idea
I'd say keep it simple with those sexy thongs and those gowns..... yep daydreaming now
Be warned though, you don't know what he might want you to wear! :eek2:
I honestly don't mind what girls wear in bed...so long as it's not just a bra. I don't know why but girls wearing just a bra and no knickers just really turns me off for some reason. Maybe it's just me.
or.. maybe you should just ask your boyfriend...
Like were you can untie the sides of your thong.
that reads like an erotic novel
I couldn't agree more wobble.
Nothing is where it's at. In summer the cool evening breezew dancing across the skin is so sensual and oooh, and in winter feeling the warmth of the sexy lady laying next to you as you snuggle deeply can't be beaten. NOt even with sticks.
But then just some snugly PJ's have a cuteness turn on factor for me.
yeah, here too.
even though I love (undressing ) the sexy lingerie my girlfriend wears to bed, a standard cotton PJ does get me horny as much as well sometimes.
maybe subconsciously those PJs tell one that "there won't be any tonight" which makes it even more sizzle when you start going for it anyways... who knows *lol*
Wearing nothing in bed is the bestest thing. But wearing something teasing and sexy before bed I can appreciate, especially a little short nightie that doesn't quite cover up your soft peachy bottom.
Ooo, i have lots of them :yes: Very good
That's reassuring to hear! I usually wear some white cotton knickers and a white cotton vest top to sleep in if I'm alone, and a few nights ago my boyfriend turned up just as I was about to get into bed - felt really little-girlish and unattractive!
oh no, if he's like the rest of us guys, you would have made him very horny indeed
anything matching, close fitting is very nice... although it usually doesn't stay on long
whats the deal with men and matching things?
i like to wear underwear/nightwear that matches because i just like it,
but why would it turn a man on
Kinda looks trampy if they don't match, do ya not think? Maybe just me!
Thanks! now im gonna feel like a tramp if im not matching :impissed:
hehe just as long as the stuff looks good together, it's good, that's what I meant by matching
obviously if it doesnt look good, then you wont look good!
I do it as well... just if I plan to be with my partner that night, I always make sure they are matched :yes:
still, i dont get the obsession
kinda scary if matching is making some sort of sex statement
I mean, I'm a cheap git and would always spend money on packets of thongs/french knickers... as I find it hard to buy bra and knickers as a set without the bra being padded...don't like padded bras.
And I can't afford going to go to fancy underwear shops all the time.
Go nude and save yourself a few quid as it seems to be satisfying the lads as well