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I do prefer that, but i would never put my baby through it if it wasnt neccessary, ie that it wasnt endangering their health. I see no reason why they should go through it.
Either way, I can confirm that the baby doesn't remember it.
I cut my finger off when i was a baby. I dont remember it, but im pretty sure it hurt and i was distressed at the time
...of course not, but also it is proven that this operation is the first shock the baby will encounter in its life and MIGHT have a big influence towards its mental development.
also I think it doesn't matter if you remember it or not. I surely don't remember all painful moments in my life but still at that time it hurt like hell!!!
I would and do.
definately!
especially the more extreme muslims that circumsize their girls!
those people should be shot! (not muslims but people who C. their daughters)
because those girls will NEVER in their lives know sexual pleasure!!!
Well.........
The nerve endings arnt properly developed, therfore they dont use anasetic (sp) and just chope the end off! Therfore the "risk" is greatly reduced, but you can still get infections! :eek: :eek: :mad:
Bopz
I was stating a fact. It didn't "harm" me. Rabbiting on about abuse is a straw man argument.
From my experience, yes. I never know how far I can pull the skin without hurting the guy, can't get at the head of his penis to give it some tongue action .... and there is always that worry that if they can't get it back when hard, how easy is it for them to keep themselves clean? In this instance, a circumcised penis is better (for me).
can't get it back when hard?! isn't it supposed to roll back automatically while willy is hardening/getting bigger?
if not then it would be a medical issue and should be cut, no? like when you can't roll it back properly to uncover the head.
how is it possible to have intercourse with the foreskin still covering the head anyways?
I'm so confused now
The guy is lying back, but is propped up so he can see what you're doing (it always helps), you're sitting between his legs, facing him, make sure you've got some lube on your hands.
Hold him in one hand at the base with your palm facing away from you, your thumb and index finger should be nestling in his pubes (your pinkie is furthest up)- (this is really hard to describe- in the book they have pictures!)
Make sure your wrist is flexed back, as you'll need to twist it around later.
Move your hand up the shaft, and when you get to the top, unflex your wrist, twisting his foreskin around (not too far) then slide your palm over the head around to the other side so your palm is now facing you, and slide back down, as your hand reaches the bottom, your other hand starts again, work up a rhythm, it ought to be good.
The great thing about this is he cant do it to himself! Apparently a guy will never ever want to leave you if you get this right!
I hope I've described this clearly enough- just ask if you're not sure- I know it sounds complicated!
Is there a 'sharing techniques' thread? that'd be great!
Freyja
I didnt even need to read the whole thing now youve said that
Now ive read it all i saw this ^^^ Why dont you make one?
It has obviously greatly scarred you and your emotional development. I often have nightmares about having my foreskin removed. Then I lie in bed crying wishing I had a little bit of extra skin around my penis. :rolleyes:
I have never seen an uncut penis though. What is foreskin like?
silky smooth
I'm sure if you look really really hard you can find some on the internet....
The foreskin is supposed to pull back for an erection but for many people, it doesn't. I think it's because of this that I have noticed they tend to take a lot longer to cum because of it.
If the foreskin doesn't pull back then that is a medical problem, and circumcision is normally the option.
Cicumcised men take longer to come because the sensitive tip of the penis is made less sensitive by continual rubbing against underwear and other clothing. The forsekin is designed to protect the head of the penis, so without it the skin is coarsed slightly and is made less sensitive.
Mine's like that and it worried me, I was concerned I was a freak, and thus it hindered my sexual exploration for a couple of years, until I became comfortable enough with a girlfriend to let her in on my problem.
The foreskin will move over the head when my penis isn't erect but when it is erect the opening is too small so cleaning's not an issue, you just clean when you don't have an erection and although I don't have a comparison the sex is pretty good too.
I went to my GP to discuss it thinking I can a condition called phimosis and had a wonderful and not at all embarassing physical examination , he said I could elect to have a circumcision but having frequent sex would probably sort it by itself. Best treatment ever. Hasn't worked but still.
I'm scared of surgery, and pain and medical blunders. I'll need to get over it if I ever want a blowjob. To the best of my knowledge it just ain't possible. :chin: