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Ok so im gonna sound like the worlds biggest slut here...... or perhaps pervert.... i dont know the right word.....
but today i discovered a whole new world. I've spent the afternoon on a webcam site.... getting naked...... touching myself...... etc etc while other people watch and type things to me. I know it sounds gross and strange but I dont show my face and its the best confidence boost to have these strangers tell me my body is beautiful (particularly as i dont really like it much myself). and then if i meet people i like Im cam2cam'ing with em on msn.....
it sounds crazy.... and i know im gonna get warnings about the dangers..... but i would never give my details to anyone, nor would i meet up with them or even show my face so its all in fun. Anyone else done it....? Or want to do it??
but today i discovered a whole new world. I've spent the afternoon on a webcam site.... getting naked...... touching myself...... etc etc while other people watch and type things to me. I know it sounds gross and strange but I dont show my face and its the best confidence boost to have these strangers tell me my body is beautiful (particularly as i dont really like it much myself). and then if i meet people i like Im cam2cam'ing with em on msn.....
it sounds crazy.... and i know im gonna get warnings about the dangers..... but i would never give my details to anyone, nor would i meet up with them or even show my face so its all in fun. Anyone else done it....? Or want to do it??
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I haven't stripped for strangers yet, but my g/f and me do some kinky stuff every now and then via our cams which is quite arousing...
even though afterwards I tend to miss her even more... which sucks.
I bet doing it for others really can be quite a self-esteem boost, as long as you don't get paid and do it for your own pleasure as well.
And of course as long as your school/workplace/uni doesn't know that you're doing it
so I guess there's nothing wrong with it
[EDIT] it could get problematic if someone does notice who you are and that you might be underaged for "internet porn".
and also if it happens in chat communities where minors have access to.
you might not get into trouble because you haven't got no pimp forcing you to do it and stuff but it sure would get some bad attention [/EDIT]
i wana do it!!!! sounds like great fun+i could do with a confidence boost. :mad: ggrr, wish i has a web cam. whats the url??
BTW, u aint a slut, just a very cool adventerous person :thumb:
It sounds like you are already aware of the dangers, but I really hope you've thought through the reasons why you're doing this. It sounds like you aren't too confident about yourself and are finding this a good boost. Perhaps it would be better in the long run if you looked at improving your self esteem for yourself rather than doing so through through compliments through others?
Of course, it's always flattering to be told how beautiful you are, but you have to believe that about yourself to really feel happy. Check out the links below about self esteem - they may give you a few pointers, and in the meantime, please be careful when using webcams - stick to your own rules, and stay safe.
Low self esteem
Building self esteem
Some people on Yahoo are so silly. I stuck on my webcam and had it pointing to a girl in my FHM and people were messaging me say stuff like ohh nice tits 'n stuff.
Loads of people do it, of course many of those would not let on, like yourself many wouldn't show their face.
Speaking from experience, Yes I've done it before as well.
Quite a while back - Started with my ex where I would tease him, etc but when we broke up, I started doing it with strangers.
It's different, exciting - Gets your blood pumping when you don't have a sex life... it's a great substitute.
A girl is entitled to a bit of fun, aint she?!
spongebobsgirl web cams are really cheap in argos you can get one for about £20 and when I got mine there was an offer for buy one web cam for £25 get another one free. Just thought I would let you know
don't you get nervous or paranoid someone you know might recognise you?
might've been lefthandman.
she said she doesn't show her face.
if thats who you meant.
i was kinda thinking about her bedroom, or wherever her pc is
the only problem is that my laptop can only be connected to the internet downstairs+its not all that often im home alone without my 'rents or sis. oh well, il get one anyway!!!
Seriously Id be very careful.
i used to have a faceparty and although it was flattering when people sent me messages about how beautiful i am or whatever it did kind of disturb me.
as for you webcamming, i just wouldn't be able to take my clothes off for some sad desperado so that he can wank over me. i have more dignity than that, sorry.
It's just a way to get a thrill and a buzz. As long as you keep yourself anonymous then there's no harm in it really. Hmmm *looks at webcam*
but you wouldn't do it for him/them only, you get thrilled as well, and that's why you do it in the first place.
who cares who's watching as long as it's fun for you and you stay anonymous.
and if you like the idea of old perverts watching then that's perfectly fine too, and might make it even more exciting for you!
that's got nothing to do with dignity imo.
but then again i'm the type of person who would only take their clothes off for someone they were in a relationship with.
That being the case then you're not likely to understand why anyone else would want to do it.
I very much doubt that people who are doing the stripping or whatever for the webcam are just doing it for the benefit of the watchers. :crazyeyes
No, quite.
But it does have a lot to do with dignity- someone who is willing to strip naked for anyone does not have a lot of self-esteem and dignity. I'm not saying iot's wrong, but people who have self-respect do not get their puppies and fanny out for any old perv.
i think you're wrong there. I think it would take a lot of self esteem / self belief to get naked for lots of folk.
urgh.
Well how i see it is that if i can only attract an 'old perv' then it says a lot for my body.
Theres no way a horrible, greasy slimeball (cos thats what they probably are) is gonna sit wanking whilst hes watching me :yuck:
got msn hun :rolleyes:
what can i say... :angel:
:yuck: at the pic you put up! *shudders*