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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    New year, new start? maybe that's the reason why everyone seems to be just in relationships... *shrugs* maybe it's just a coincidence.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cute_Baby_Bear
    New year, new start? maybe that's the reason why everyone seems to be just in relationships... *shrugs* maybe it's just a coincidence.

    maybe... i always wonder whether europeanised chinese people get two new starts...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dr_carter
    hehe, i feel exactly the same as u sugar, it's the best way i think.... not that i've tried flings myself, it's neva been my thing, but a cosy relationship is the way forward methinks

    i'm getting bored of being single....

    yeah i no, i'm sure will find someone, it will happen eventually trust me, thats what usualy happens for me, but tends to be when i don't want them, but then i end up regretting not letting them have a chance which is a bit of a pain aswell! ah well thats me for you, i can never make up my mind what i want :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mr Glittery and I have been together for 2 and a half years now, feels way longer than that though (not that thats a bad thing!).

    :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Glittery Vodka
    Mr Glittery and I have been together for 2 and a half years now, feels way longer than that though (not that thats a bad thing!).

    :)

    hey, well done!

    another successful relationship for more than a few months....

    there doesn't seem 2 be that many on this thread 2bh.... lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by **sugar**
    yeah i no, i'm sure will find someone, it will happen eventually trust me, thats what usualy happens for me, but tends to be when i don't want them, but then i end up regretting not letting them have a chance which is a bit of a pain aswell! ah well thats me for you, i can never make up my mind what i want :rolleyes:

    well i've only got two things 2 say 2 u!

    1) be decisive
    2) be open... when opportunity knocks, invite it in...

    which reminds me of another VERY useful piece of advice (which should be applied in relationships)

    learn to listen.... opportunity sometimes knocks very softly
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ive been with a guy for about 2months now. hes yummy.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lipsy
    ive been with a guy for about 2months now. hes yummy.

    yummy?
    odd choice of wording!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no its not. it means he's tasty, gorgeous.. ya know!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lipsy
    no its not. it means he's tasty, gorgeous.. ya know!

    yeah, i no....

    so ur another 1 that has recently got into a relationship.... well not all that recently comparatively but u no....

    why is it that i'm one of a minority of single people here!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :yes: coming on three years now
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by badabing
    :yes: coming on three years now

    oooh..... i think we have a fourth place contender here

    three years, very impressive....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I do!! Approximately 1 year and 1 month. :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, i think the longest standing current relationships chart currently stands as follows:

    1st - Byny - 9 years
    2nd - RepeatToFade - 3 yrs 3 months
    3rd - badabing - 3 years
    4th - Moonshiner - 1 yr 1 month
    5th - Britney - 1 yr

    i think these lot deserve a little prize.... well done!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dr_carter
    well, i think the longest standing current relationships chart currently stands as follows:

    1st - Byny - 9 years
    2nd - RepeatToFade - 3 yrs 3 months
    3rd - badabing - 3 years
    4th - Moonshiner - 1 yr 1 month
    5th - Britney - 1 yr

    i think these lot deserve a little prize.... well done!

    This is where I should say about how my relationship is reward enough...no.

    Cash would be good.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by MoonShiner
    This is where I should say about how my relationship is reward enough...no.

    Cash would be good.

    u'll have 2 go fish for it i'm afraid! i'm skint, can't afford to pay u people for holding a relationship down AND expect to be able to fund my own when i comes.....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mizz_pink
    well........I just kinda ish started seeing someone, altho not sure whether its gonna work out cos its only been going on for a week, and I'm back to uni on saturday:rolleyes: . But, hopefully things'll work out!!! :D


    we're so in the same boat!
    we should swap ideas about helpin the situation!

    and on a completly different note, you don't have to comment on every post in your own thread hahaha :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by molo
    and on a completly different note, you don't have to comment on every post in your own thread hahaha :lol:
    he's just a friendly chap thats all :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *puts hand up*

    nearly 2 years now. and still stupidly happy :D

    although the one before was 3, so i haven't beaten my own record yet.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm all alone :crying:

    I'm ok though :) I split with my boyfriend of 16months a few weeks ago because the relationship wasn't going well, but we're still on good terms.

    And I'm not really looking for anyone, too busy atm!

    Congrats to eveyrone who has got someone though, I'm happy for you :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by perfect***day
    I'm all alone :crying:

    I'm ok though :) I split with my boyfriend of 16months a few weeks ago because the relationship wasn't going well, but we're still on good terms.

    And I'm not really looking for anyone, too busy atm!

    Congrats to eveyrone who has got someone though, I'm happy for you :)

    awww... poor u! :hugs:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lipsy
    he's just a friendly chap thats all :D

    absolutely.... just love to talk, that's all....
    And i wanna share my wished of good luck and congratulations to all those lucky people in a relationship - i'm not trying to be aggravating, just pleasant.....
    Sorry
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dr_carter
    well, i think the longest standing current relationships chart currently stands as follows:

    1st - Byny - 9 years
    2nd - RepeatToFade - 3 yrs 3 months
    3rd - badabing - 3 years
    4th - Moonshiner - 1 yr 1 month
    5th - Britney - 1 yr

    i think these lot deserve a little prize.... well done!

    *cough cough*

    And where am I in your chart thingy mister :yeees:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ooh I should go in it now too, I beat Britney & Moonshiner! :hyper:


    ..why am I excited about that? Yes, I know. I haven't had enough sleep. My brain is mush.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dr_carter
    well i've only got two things 2 say 2 u!

    1) be decisive
    2) be open... when opportunity knocks, invite it in...

    which reminds me of another VERY useful piece of advice (which should be applied in relationships)

    learn to listen.... opportunity sometimes knocks very softly

    Thanx for the advice dr_carter, i'l take it in to concideration, i think thats what i do need to do, be more open and also make more of an effort too! and i'm sure you will find someone nice for yourself because you seem like a good guy :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    current relationship is 6 months but we've been best mates for atleast 3 yrs so it feels like much longer.

    Previous relationship was 3 yrs but 6 months with my current fella is better than hundred yrs with the last one (the bastard!):D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ah im enjoying the freedom of single life at the minute,
    Too busy to have a proper relationship at the moment-
    Im like a kiddy in a sweet shop my eyes light up and I want to taste them all but aint really found many I want to keep-

    No harm in keep sampling, he he
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dr_carter
    i know what you mean...

    i'm so tempted by the fuck buddy thing.... it'll vent a hell of a lot of my frustration

    if only there weren't two major problems
    1) can't find anyone
    2) still a virgin (not so much of a problem if u can find sum1 tho i suppose!)

    mind you, ten months is better than me! by about ten times!!!

    agree with you on all of those facts. i share most of them
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'm with my man of a year and 7 months :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nope. Been single all my life! How sad...
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