who actually has someone?

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You can pick it up from bits and pieces but it does get really really confusing sometimes

I'm wondering, who is actually going out with someone at the mo, and how long you've been together?

makes me sound like a total nonce but i can't work anything out for myself, sorry... :banghead:

and no, i'm not with anyone myself atm, but i'm working on it

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i have recently started seeing a lovely girl but its a bit of a basturd cus i'm fuckin off back to uni this saturday

but we're gonna give it a go anyway.... sigh..

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I am and its been 9 years I think - since 1995 anyway........

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not entirely sure it'd be a good idea for me to end up giving it a go with anyone while at university.... espeically considering that i'm intending to go to university in Australia.... don't think THAT much of a distance would work to be honest... hehe

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i am its been ummm 20 days

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Originally posted by blonde__batman
i am its been ummm 20 days

20 days?!?! well done, you've almost beaten my record...

i don't seem to be able to manage long term relationships... due to the small fact that i seem to go out with people who live too far away and then they dump me cos they can't cope with a long distance...

i could find someone closer to home but i like being difficult

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Originally posted by dr_carter
20 days?!?! well done, you've almost beaten my record...

lets hope it lasts much longer than 20 days.

you'll find someone right for you and it'll all work out

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Originally posted by blonde__batman
lets hope it lasts much longer than 20 days.

you'll find someone right for you and it'll all work out

lets hope so!

preferably not before australia so i don't have to end up permanently splitting up with them and/or attempting a very long distance relationship...

13 months to go!!!!!! woooooo

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I'm not in a relationship coz I get bored too easily. Longest I been with someone was 10months. My one and only proper relationship.

Don't like the idea of being tied down with someone. I like to keep my life simple.

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Originally posted by Cruel2BKind
I'm not in a relationship coz I get bored too easily. Longest I been with someone was 10months. My one and only proper relationship.

Don't like the idea of being tied down with someone. I like to keep my life simple.

i know what you mean...

i'm so tempted by the fuck buddy thing.... it'll vent a hell of a lot of my frustration

if only there weren't two major problems
1) can't find anyone
2) still a virgin (not so much of a problem if u can find sum1 tho i suppose!)

mind you, ten months is better than me! by about ten times!!!

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Originally posted by Aspartame
I'm not in a relationship, because I've not got a hope in hell of having one.

bit depressive! lighten up, it's neva as bad as it seems!!!

why haven't you got a hope in hell then?!?!?

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Originally posted by Aspartame
Oh, I'm not being depressive...just matter of fact.

If I knew why, I'd be in more of a position to sort it. But I don't, so can't.

got any ideas? what're you like as a person?

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I'm not. And its hitting me like never before ATM.

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Originally posted by Aspartame
Probably just a lack of confidence. *nods*

I can't really describe myself as a person...as normal as possible, I suppose *boggles*

no need to look like that! lol

lack of confidence is the root of a lot of my problems i suppose.... how long has it been since ur last den? if any?!?

it's my belief that there's no such thing as a *normal* person...

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Originally posted by Aspartame
Confidence is supposedly the key. *nods*

If any. Nope, there have been none.

I mean conforming to the social norm (as in not wandering around killing people and the like).

well i'm not sure wandering around killing people is so much of a hinderance

my friend has a strange OBSESSION with knives, guns and death, and he never has any problems.... although he does really really hurt his exs (and his latest ex is my best mate, which poses a slight problem for me, hehe)

i'm in the middle of a bet.... ten quid says i can find a girlfriend in two months, fifty says i can get laid in two months, and it started two weeks ago.... silly bet but i can't afford it and i'm running out of time..... S**T

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I've been going out with my bf for 3 years and 3 months!!

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Originally posted by RepeatToFade
I've been going out with my bf for 3 years and 3 months!!

well done! we have a new second place i think!

good for you. can you pass on any tips to me and aspartame???
lol

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well........I just kinda ish started seeing someone, altho not sure whether its gonna work out cos its only been going on for a week, and I'm back to uni on saturday:rolleyes: . But, hopefully things'll work out!!!

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*raises hand*
*puts it down*
*raises hand*
*puts it back down*
*raises hand again*
*puts it back down*
*raises hand*

its kind of an on off thing for about 3 years now, sometimes with very long off periods.

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Originally posted by Mizz_pink
well........I just kinda ish started seeing someone, altho not sure whether its gonna work out cos its only been going on for a week, and I'm back to uni on saturday:rolleyes: . But, hopefully things'll work out!!!

good luck to you.... truly.... i hope it works out 4 u, every1 deserves someone (except for rapists, serial murderers, murderers, etc etc.....)

it's nice that some people are happy at least! mind you, i've kinda got good feelings about a 14 year old i no (maybe a problem, me 18, her 14, but never mind) so it may be looking good

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I've been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half weeks now I'm normally single, and he's my first serious boyfriend.

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Originally posted by blonde__batman
i am its been ummm 20 days

Mine's been 19! hehe


My one before was 3years, so that's a bit of a record to beat! :eek2:

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Originally posted by Faith
Mine's been 19! hehe


The one before was 3years, so that's a bit of a record to beat! :eek2:

well i've beaten you so far, though no doubt urs will last longer than my last.... lol

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I've been with my boyfriend for a year. He's lovely. I've got some horrednous ex's though, but it was worth it to be with the man i'm with now.

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Originally posted by Britney
I've been with my boyfriend for a year. He's lovely. I've got some horrednous ex's though, but it was worth it to be with the man i'm with now.

u go girl.... well done.... third place so far.... although chances are you may be beaten off by other people

i think my mates suffering a variant of yours.... not so much the horrendous ex during the relationship as the horrendous ex after...

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Originally posted by dr_carter
well i've beaten you so far, though no doubt urs will last longer than my last.... lol

I meant my longest was 3 years, so I think I beat ya

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Originally posted by Faith
I meant my longest was 3 years, so I think I beat ya

dammit, foiled again!

maybe i'll beat u wen i go uni in australia... or maybe not... lol

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*raises hand*
I am. Been with him for a total of 9 days now...
Boyfriend before this was 16 and a 1/2 months, in 3 installments... lol. he turned out to be a complete bastard... though somehow we are still friends

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Originally posted by Cute_Baby_Bear
*raises hand*
I am. Been with him for a total of 9 days now...
Boyfriend before this was 16 and a 1/2 months, in 3 installments... lol. he turned out to be a complete bastard... though somehow we are still friends

still friends and he was a complete bastard?? i'm confused... how does this one work?
was he a complete bastard before or after you went out?
oh, and why is it that everyone seems to have just gotten into a relationship?!? lol

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Nope i'm not with anyone, i have had on and off flings going on since about febuary last year when i split up with my boyfriend, it was ok at first just having a good time not being tide down, but now i'm getting kind of bored of it, i just want one person who i can have a nice, cosy relationship with

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Originally posted by **sugar**
Nope i'm not with anyone, i have had on and off flings going on since about febuary last year when i split up with my boyfriend, it was ok at first just having a good time not being tide down, but now i'm getting kind of bored of it, i just want one person who i can have a nice, cosy relationship with

hehe, i feel exactly the same as u sugar, it's the best way i think.... not that i've tried flings myself, it's neva been my thing, but a cosy relationship is the way forward methinks

i'm getting bored of being single....