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my future

toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 4,129 Community Veteran
in Health & Wellbeing
so ive been thinking a lot about my future lately and this is what i want to happen in the future. i want to get into a job, marry someone special and have one kid. not two, not more. in the past ive debated having more than one in the future but i think it isnt worth the extra hassle of pregnancy. besides i want to focus my attention on one child which will be great because then they can have everything. also ive changed my mind from last time on what i want to name them. im thinking maxim for a boy and sonya for a girl. maxim means "the greatest" and sonya means "wisdom", which are both great meanings. id preferably want to have a girl though, i dont know why lol. id also preferably want to have a kid in my early to mid 20s, so i can show you all my journey of being a mother. because if ill be any older than that then ill be too old for the mix unfortunately. also this is the only good forum where i can post stuff about my journey because mumsnet is a bit... well, toxic. plus a common trend i see on that forum is that the mums on there are usually older, so i wont be able to relate to them as much. so thats why im going to be on this forum when i become that mum.

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  • AzzimanAzziman Discussion Boards Moderator Posts: 2,547 Boards Guru
    Hey @toffuna101, thank you for sharing this with us! It's good to think about these things, and considering the timing of when you'd like to have children is important too. Maxim and Sonya are lovely choices for names, how did you decide on them as the two names you'd most like? The reason I ask, is because there's lots of lovely names out there - picking one can be a challenge! We're here to listen to you.
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  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 4,129 Community Veteran
    Azziman wrote: »
    Hey @toffuna101, thank you for sharing this with us! It's good to think about these things, and considering the timing of when you'd like to have children is important too. Maxim and Sonya are lovely choices for names, how did you decide on them as the two names you'd most like? The reason I ask, is because there's lots of lovely names out there - picking one can be a challenge! We're here to listen to you.

    well because of their definitions, i think theyll suit my future child well. maxim sounds strong, whilst sonya sounds elegant.
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