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Anybody want to vent or chat about anything? (Triggering stuff edition)

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  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,656 Extreme Poster
    River wrote: »
    I managed to have an everything shower 😌 I spent 2 hours in there which is the longest I’ve ever spent and I only went dizzy once and managed to not have a panic attack either

    @River that is astonishing progress. Absolutely amazing. You're not only surviving your past trauma, but your actively fighting it, and now you're thriving in the face of it. I am so so proud of you right now and you should be proud of yourself to. I know how significant this is for you, and how much it will have taken you, and it is honestly astonishing how strong of a person you are to have done this. Well done 1000 times over.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,702 The Mix Elder
    Thank youuuuuu @DonnerKebab i treated myself after to Pepsi

    Also my friend announced she’s pregnant 🫠🫠 my heart is melting
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,656 Extreme Poster
    River wrote: »
    Thank youuuuuu @DonnerKebab i treated myself after to Pepsi

    Also my friend announced she’s pregnant 🫠🫠 my heart is melting

    @River Amazing stuff. So, a very good day for you then?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,702 The Mix Elder
    @DonnerKebab yeah 🫢
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,656 Extreme Poster
    @River I'm glad things have started to go good for you. I told you that even during the darkest times when it doesn't seem things are gonna get better, it still can. I hope you can see that a bit now friend. And again, well done.
  • toffuna101toffuna101 Posts: 3,103 Boards Guru
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @toffuna101 i know it isn't quite the same, but you could remove the parts that would get confidentiality broken and the post deleted, and vent about everything else. I know it's not ideal, but it beats venting about nothing. If even 1 minor thing is vented about and you get it off your chest, it's a win.

    its best not to say it tbh.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,521 Legendary Poster
    im feeling rly lost today 💔
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,656 Extreme Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    im feeling rly lost today 💔

    I'm here for you @eylah. It's okay to feel lost sometimes, do you want to talk a little bit more about it?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,702 The Mix Elder
    I’m loosing the will to live in this class
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,521 Legendary Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    im feeling rly lost today 💔

    I'm here for you @eylah. It's okay to feel lost sometimes, do you want to talk a little bit more about it?

    i feel like a bad person for constantly venting to you bc you’re dealing with your own issues and i feel bad bc you shouldn’t have to deal with my shit. but i rly appreciate you supporting me every day it means the world to me <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,656 Extreme Poster
    River wrote: »
    I’m loosing the will to live in this class

    @River Maths?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,702 The Mix Elder
    @DonnerKebab media
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,656 Extreme Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    im feeling rly lost today 💔

    I'm here for you @eylah. It's okay to feel lost sometimes, do you want to talk a little bit more about it?

    i feel like a bad person for constantly venting to you bc you’re dealing with your own issues and i feel bad bc you shouldn’t have to deal with my shit. but i rly appreciate you supporting me every day it means the world to me <3

    @eylah that's what friends do for each other. You've been so kind to me, do you really think i'm gonna not be kind to you. You DESERVE to be able to vent and be supported every single day because you're not just any old twat, you're a very special twat 😂 <3

    I'm the one asking for you to vent, i created this whole thread for people to vent, and nothing makes me happier than giving people the space to vent and then offering them what support i can. Especially you eylah. You are not a bad person at all, you are the kindest person i know, and i want to offer you what support i can, because you deserve support and care and to have somebody in your corner. <3
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,656 Extreme Poster
    River wrote: »
    @DonnerKebab media

    @River sounds like a painful lesson. how long you got left?
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,702 The Mix Elder
    @DonnerKebab i finish at 5
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • RiverRiver Community Connector Posts: 4,702 The Mix Elder
    I went to see Janis for a bit and she gave me gum, a lolly, Dr Pepper and then we just chatted and then she walked me back to class
    Sometimes when the people most like you don't love you, it is a hurt that can cause the greatest pain, and this pain can lead you to hate everything.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,521 Legendary Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    im feeling rly lost today 💔

    I'm here for you @eylah. It's okay to feel lost sometimes, do you want to talk a little bit more about it?

    i feel like a bad person for constantly venting to you bc you’re dealing with your own issues and i feel bad bc you shouldn’t have to deal with my shit. but i rly appreciate you supporting me every day it means the world to me <3

    @eylah that's what friends do for each other. You've been so kind to me, do you really think i'm gonna not be kind to you. You DESERVE to be able to vent and be supported every single day because you're not just any old twat, you're a very special twat 😂 <3

    I'm the one asking for you to vent, i created this whole thread for people to vent, and nothing makes me happier than giving people the space to vent and then offering them what support i can. Especially you eylah. You are not a bad person at all, you are the kindest person i know, and i want to offer you what support i can, because you deserve support and care and to have somebody in your corner. <3

    you’re my favourite twat 🤣🤣❤️

    thankyou so much how are you today? i am here if you need to vent/talk ❤️
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,656 Extreme Poster
    @eylah sorry i've taken a while to respond, had to go on a daily walk with my brother again. It means a huge amount to me that i'm your favourite twat 😂 <3

    I'm doing alright thanks, and thank you. I may just have to take you up on that venting offer one day when i'm ready. But i'm here for you too friend, and want to listen to you vent as well. Sending hugs. <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,521 Legendary Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @eylah sorry i've taken a while to respond, had to go on a daily walk with my brother again. It means a huge amount to me that i'm your favourite twat 😂 <3

    I'm doing alright thanks, and thank you. I may just have to take you up on that venting offer one day when i'm ready. But i'm here for you too friend, and want to listen to you vent as well. Sending hugs. <3

    you’re not alone <3 im always gonna be here for you!! <3 sending hugs 🫂
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,656 Extreme Poster
    @eylah and i'll always be here for you too, returning fire with even more hugs <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,521 Legendary Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    @eylah and i'll always be here for you too, returning fire with even more hugs <3

    thankyou so much <3 sat here sobbing lol
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,656 Extreme Poster
    @shannon_164 just checking to see how you are. I know there's not a lot you can say on here, but i just want to make sure you can find some other community to support you outside the mix before you leave so your not alone at any point, and to also let you know you're an amazing kind soul who deserves far better than what's happened.
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,521 Legendary Poster
    edited June 19
    wishing i wasn’t here anymore . :)

    * im safe * i have no plans of suicide ive spoken to shout and i feel better.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,656 Extreme Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    wishing i wasn’t here anymore . :)

    * im safe *

    @eylah i'm here to talk to eylah. I wasn't lying earlier when i said i'm always gonna be here for you <3
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,521 Legendary Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    wishing i wasn’t here anymore . :)

    * im safe *

    @eylah i'm here to talk to eylah. I wasn't lying earlier when i said i'm always gonna be here for you <3

    thankyou so much <3 it’s just stupid thoughts going through my head that are getting on my nerves. i’ve just finished a chat with shout and i feel better. but i just wanna sleep but can’t i hate my brain.
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,656 Extreme Poster
    @eylah I'm so glad you're feeling a bit better now, but it's completely understandable still having those thoughts booming around your head. Talking is relieving, but it doesn't mean an instant fix or complete removal of those thoughts al the time. And the more you try to ignore them, the more common those thoughts become and the more regular i'm guessing based on my own past experiences with that. If it isn't the weather stopping you from getting some shuteye, it's your brain it seems. I'm so sorry your struggling with this, and i'm here to talk for as long as you want until eventually you do manage to get to sleep, my favourite twat in the whole wide world <3 😂
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,521 Legendary Poster
    i cant sleep my body hurts 💔


    thankyou my fellow twat @DonnerKebab <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • DonnerKebabDonnerKebab Posts: 1,656 Extreme Poster
    eylah wrote: »
    i cant sleep my body hurts 💔


    thankyou my fellow twat @DonnerKebab <3

    @eylah i know it's not a lot, but i'm here if you want to chat. There isn't much i can do about the pain of everything hurting, but i can keep you virtual company till you manage to get to sleep if you'd like <3.

    How is the sunburn today? Has it got any better?
  • eylaheylah Posts: 8,521 Legendary Poster
    DonnerKebab wrote: »
    eylah wrote: »
    i cant sleep my body hurts 💔


    thankyou my fellow twat @DonnerKebab <3

    @eylah i know it's not a lot, but i'm here if you want to chat. There isn't much i can do about the pain of everything hurting, but i can keep you virtual company till you manage to get to sleep if you'd like <3.

    How is the sunburn today? Has it got any better?

    its not getting better yet so im in a lot of pain still but just jumped in the shower and i feel better. <3 just gonna try sleeping bc im exhausted mentally and physically. goodnight my fellow twat appreciate you so much <3
    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
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