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Cheers bro, hopefully you're fully right. Just the job search and everything hopefully I get sorted and you do too because I want to save for a house, get a mrs, get a new car etc
That would be a dream come true wouldn't it. I think for me, at wingfest getting flirted with, was a one of, or i guess a 4 time of just because of the Lava wing challenge. I mean, besides that, there's nothing going for me in the way of a Mrs's ever. And yeah, a job would be nice. We'll get there eventually mate. That whole life would be cool to have.
I've actually have started to look at visa's myself elsewhere, cause UK salaries are actually really low now and the job market is screwed right now. You can apparently make 80,000 to 100,000 Australian dollars on a working holiday to Australia, with little to no qualifications, assuming you did overtime work, which is about up to £50,000 a year. And you can extend it for like 3 years. It's crazy, but i'm eying up that, hoping to save up and come back. I reckon, after tax, and living costs, I could save like 20K a year if i did that. I mean, that's like £60K coming back after 3 years. Again, it's a long shot, but to do that, i'm trying to save up £10K to be able to pay for flights, an apartment for the first month, and other stuff like that just setting up, like an emergency fund to get back home, and the Visa cost itself. So, i need a job to save for a visa to get me a higher paying job crazily enough so i can save. Odd stuff.
Anyway, it's a bit of a far stretch, but it's the plan I've got in mind right now. I've had very little independence in my life, so it's a big step, but maybe it'll work out. You miss all the shots you don't take. Sorry, i've rambled on a bit.
Thanks @independent_
FWIW I’m in a similar position to you both, though for different reasons. I’m 22, disabled, have been unemployed forever and pretty much rely on disability benefits. Though there are some differences, I think the 3 of us can understand each other on a level.
I know you’ve struggled a lot with not having a job @Redemption but like I’ve said to you before, it does take time to find your path.
And same for you @DonnerKebab. You will get there in the end, especially with big goals like that.
You both have the drive and determination to move forward. My situation is a little different as the determination can be there but disability discrimination is out in full force and is never going away.
Yh bro we'll get there both of us hopefully soon not everything all at once but gradually. I wish you the absolute best with all of that. Anyway bro gonna head to sleep in a few mins so we'll talk tomorrow, hopefully day time in the general chat but we'll have to see what happens. Yiu sleep well, Good night.
Cheers @independent_ I agree, I'm on my own path and everything will come into place, same for you and all of us, me and @DonnerKebab .
@DonnerKebab hey I'm pretty overwhelmed with everything tbh but I'll be ok. Hope you're well
hey i’m not so gd hru?
So, any new hobbies or interests you've explored recently mate?
Cheers @DonnerKebab , not any new hobbies yet but getting my passion back for cars again. What about you?