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Marblecake
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Hello:D im new here, I found this website looking for a place to get some support or advice I don’t have (my parents are crazy controlling) I’m currently a high school senior, but I’m going to graduate with my associates because of dual classes. I have ADHD, anxiety, depression, ocd, and a couple of other mental things. Fun right. I’m nonbinary and lesbian:D I like music and drawing and a bunch of tv shows/movies. I play anch, Minecraft, and stardew valley. Anyways that’s a lot, I’m pretty bad at introducing myself because I just info dump or don’t say anything lol. That’s all I think, just happy to be here:)
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p.s I went through a huge Stardew Valley phase last year maybe I need to get back into it !
You 100% should stardew valley is so good! Plus idk if u played the newest update that came out at the end of last year but it added so much more to the game
I hear that you have been going through quite a lot at the moment and I can imagine how that must be right now especially having to go through some tricky patches (kind of like those hard levels in a video game). You've definitely come to the right place because here you can talk about anything freely and as much as you need to (I also tend to info dump and there's nothing wrong with info dumping either because it can be great just to vent out things you know). Im always here if you ever want a chat or need something in the mean time.
All the best,
Amy22
Hello! Welcome to the Mix! It's nice to meet you! Sorry to hear that your parents are controlling mine are the same way! And you like minecraft too? Cool! We're all lovely here so I hope you enjoy your stay with us, and if you ever want to talk about anything I'm here!
I do have a lot going on, it’s been so hard physically and mentally,,, (omg ur so right, clearly I just to find the big bad boss of this level and beat him up) ((looking at you prof Y😾)) that’s really good to know, i definitely need a place to talk a lot abt things I could never say to anyone who actually knows me 0_0 i info dump and trauma dump a lot (OMG I COULD START A ONE OF THOSE CANDY TRAUMA SALADS BUT ITS A THREAD LMAO)
thank you so much your so sweet, I might take u up on that offer if I ever need to chat, same goes for you alright:>
-marble🤍
Hiii:D it’s nice to meet u too! Oh nice a friend in the tragedy boat with me lmao:D I’m so glad there’s someone here that understands, most of the problems I talk abt stem from them but when I tell others they think I’m bratty or being dramatic when in reality I have like a chain on me and my life. Yk? I do love Minecraft do you? I’m always desperately hunting for someone to play with, it gets lonely by myself haha (are we allowed to trade Minecraft usernames on the mix👁️👁️) I can tell your lovely omg u’ve all been so nice it make me wanna cry🥹 and thank you so very much, if I ever gain the courage to chat you can bet I’ll let you know lol:D same goes for you:}<3
Mhm I feel ya! Throughout my life I've kind of fell into obscurity with people, so I'm kinda the same, but I won't say my problems are worse though that wouldn't be fair. Yeah mine are controlling too, they always shove rules down my throat. For example, my stuff as in my electronic devices used to go into their room in the night, which then led to many arguments but I won't get into that. Also they never set me up a bank account either and won't explain why, so even if I wanted to move out, I'm very much stuck, so I'm, in the same boat as you,, with feeling like I've got a chain on me and my life, so I know what it's like. Doesn't help that I've got really bad social anxiety either, so I'm pretty much always in the house, even though I want to be out exploring the world lol.
Yep! I do love minecraft, but I'm not sure if you can trade minecraft usernames on here, but it would be fun to have someone to play with. And I just want to say, don't ever feel like you're being bratty or dramatic, you're just trying to vocalise your opinions, and if it helps by being on here, then well always listen to you. This isn't my first time on here, so I can tell you, the people on here are really nice, and kind, and willing to listen when no one else seems to, and just remember, that you do deserve kindness and people being nice to you. And thank you, I'll always be around, so if you do want to talk I'm here!
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Omg same I would like buy so much stationary because I was obbessed with it very much. I do love a good game, I haven't been on my switch lately and I should cause my animal crossing villagers are probably still waiting for me lol. I tend to do more knitting and crochet nowadays because I prefer the tactile feeling of the yarn (as I am neurodiverse
yeah I get rly frustrated w ppl who like to compare trauma/issues they have. I get that it’s validating for some people but it also invalidates others. One of the things I rly struggle with actually, bc my family has never physically abused me so I spent years berating and hating myself for how I felt bc I thought I was so incredibly lucky and I was just doing things for attention. (How can I ‘feel things for attention’ if I never actually told anyone til I was in a psych ward lol) but yeah, rules and expectations just constantly piled on you gets horrible, so I understand. same here actually omg, my devices were locked up in there room at night and until I got my things done for the day until I hit junior year. At that point they put an app that automatically shuts everything down at night, so I’m allowed to keep them in my room to charge them. I bought myself an iPad for $400 (years of birthday money saved) and now they don’t have the app on it bc it’s legally mine and I have a right to hide it from them lmao. But anyways that’s a lot, moving on haha. Man we’re rly similar, I’ve got a bunch of mental disorders that make it uncomfortable-impossible to do things, like with my anxiety I struggle with social things too. I want to move out when I turn 18, but I don’t have a job bc they won’t let me, and I don’t have anywhere to go yet bc I have no life outside the leash they have me on.
It would be so fun! I don’t wanna break any rules tho, so I’m gonna run through the community guidelines yet again before we swap or anything. Bc it’s not like social media or personal information, but it’s still something yk.
Thank you, the same goes for you. I quite like being here, it’s comforting. Thank you again, you’re very kind and I like chatting w u:)
Stationary is an addiction I don’t have the funds to fuel lol, but I getcha. I have hyperfixations that come and go and then come again, my villagers should be used to months of absence in random spurts by now💔 ooo knitting and crochet huh, I tried to start doing those when I tried sewing to. It’s fun but it requires more concentration than a background task and I can’t concentrate on it for long enough to get anything done haha. What do you like to make? I know you can make plushies and sweaters and hats, probably blankets too. (Samesies hehe:3)
Thank you🥰
Good to have you here
Stationary is definitely an addiction, I was very addicted to collecting it at one point. My newest is hoarding yarn