I don’t know why I get so offended when people ignore me

bignosegirly0

Like, I’d be at work trying to say something but another person interrupts me, I get ignored and I just get annoyed and say something like “okay, I guess I’ll go fuck myself” or “for fuck sake” or “I’m glad everybody’s fucking ignoring me”

Like damn, chill the fuck down.

eylah

tbh your not the only one when ppl ignore me i tend to feel rubbish abt myself etc so i hear is you. tbh you have every right to react in any way that you feel bc feeling ignored is rly not a nice feeling to go through. hugs 🫂

Faolan

You’re right to be offended because it’s feckin rude.

There’s nothing I hate more than when people talk over me or interrupt when I’m talking. It’s the most annoying thing in the world.

I think half the time people don’t even realise they’re doing it. When they do it often I don’t even bother talking to them I just nod and give them short answers when they’re talking away.

Azziman

Hey @bignosegirly0, I can hear that you're feeling frustrated by how people ignore you or interrupt you. @Faolan makes a good point - it's rude, and it's disrespectful, so your feelings are valid! You deserve to be heard and listened to. Are you noticing that this is a specific individual or group of individuals at work that do this, or is this something that everyone at work is doing? We're here to listen to you

bignosegirly0

@Azziman hiya, there isn’t a specific group. It’s just in general at work.

Azziman

Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that, that's awful @bignosegirly0. I can understand why you'd feel offended, it's really unkind of people to treat you like this, so your feelings are completely valid. What you have to say has value, and you deserve to be heard