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On Tuesdays
ellie2000
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On Tuesdays I go to therapy to a one tht focuses around SA. I go with a carer and the carer mouths off to get back. They agreed 30mins stay 4 me to calm down. But they still rant and 'COME ON I GOT NEXT SUPPORT' I can't shut them off n it stresses me out. I lost trust in them wen one of them left the minute I went in coz they had a huff on. and the therapist went to check, this wasn't resolved.
How should they act after I come out of therapy?
Also there was a meeting but they said wat I had done wrong, wat is tht called? I think a review is now a bullying match. Wat is a review for?
They undid all work tht my previous therapist did
How should they act after I come out of therapy?
Also there was a meeting but they said wat I had done wrong, wat is tht called? I think a review is now a bullying match. Wat is a review for?
They undid all work tht my previous therapist did
Crazy mad insane
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It sounds so upsetting to be ranted and shouted at by your carer after your therapy session. No one has a right to treat you that way, and you deserve support and understanding.
Can I ask, is anyone else aware that your carer responded to you that way? Is this something your carer has done in the past too, or perhaps this was the first time?
Would you also feel comfortable telling us more about the content of your carer's emails to you? I can hear a part of you is concerned it might be unprofessional, and that sounds difficult to be navigating right now. You also mentioned in a seperate post that this carer / manager has been accusing you of doing things wrong, as well as giving you things - is that right? Can I ask, what sort of things has he been giving you? And what has he been accusing you of?
It would be great to understand this further so we can support you.
If you're looking for help finding alternative care for yourself, or discussing concerns you might have about your carer, the following places might be helpful:
POhWER provide information, advice, support and advocacy to people who experience disability, vulnerability, distress and social exclusion. All of their services are free, independent and confidential. They also have a set of advocates especially for children and young people, including if you are involved with a mental health unit or CAMHS.To speak to an advisor who can point you in the right direction, you can contact their help hub which is open Monday-Friday 8am-6pm, except bank holidays. Their phone number is 0300 456 2370 or you can send the word 'pohwer' with your name and number to 81025. You can also find the details for how you can email, skype, fax or post to get in touch with them. You can also head to their website which has an easy read and accessibility option at https://www.pohwer.net/
If you did ever feel unsafe, the following places are also here for you:
There’s an organisation called NSPCC. They offer advice, counselling & information to those concerned about a child at risk of abuse, including children and young people themselves. The helpline is available Monday to Friday 11am-5pm on 0808 800 5000, but you can email help@nspcc.org.uk or complete their report abuse online form on their website at any time. You can also use their online form to report abuse. If they feel a child is being abused or neglected they will want to intervene by using the information that you give them so if you want to remain anonymous then you should not give them personal details about yourself. You can also go to www.nspcc.org.uk for more details.
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