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Situation with a pool group member and a friend

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For the second situation, I can understand that you felt upset because you felt your feelings and thoughts weren't considered important. It sounds like she was trying to make a helpful suggestion with good intention, but that you were affected by that suggestion since you're already writing down your feelings. Have you spoken to your friend since? It sounds like a conversation about the topic might help to clear the air here. How would you feel about doing this? We're here to support you