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Signing stuff

ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,293 Community Veteran
in Health & Wellbeing
R ppl supposed to make u sign stuff wen ur feeling vulnerable?
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  • eylaheylah Posts: 4,441 Community Veteran
    wdum sign stuff like paperwork? you dont have to sign stuff if you dont want to. are ppl forcing you to sign things you dont want to ellie? here for you. <3
    keep your face always toward the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you. 🤍
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,293 Community Veteran
    @eylah I had a meeting and it was supposed to be on one issue, but it was the review aswell. My side went through our stuff, wen the manager went his stuff they went through the full what I have done wat I haven't, I interrupted and sed 'stop pointscoring' they didn't like tht. I was stressed n tired so I can't remember most of it, do stressful situations make ppl blank out? Wen u r stressed n tired? I get told I'm doing very well outside of care home. Do they want me to fail?
    Also wats this 'behavial order' tht they apparently have?
    Wen is it gd getting the cqc involved?
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  • eylaheylah Posts: 4,441 Community Veteran
    i know when im stressed or physically tired i blank out like my mind stops thinking for few minutes. im not sure why they would force you have your spoken to anyone abt this? bc i can hear how stressed you feel rn bc of this. <3
    keep your face always toward the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you. 🤍
  • KatieKatie Moderator Posts: 70 Budding Regular
    Hey @ellie2000 do you feel comfortable clarifying what you may have signed? I've read through your other thread and wanted to ask if you were able to voice your concerns at this meeting?
    ellie2000 wrote: »
    I was stressed n tired so I can't remember most of it, do stressful situations make ppl blank out? Wen u r stressed n tired?

    I also want to say that how you was feeling in the meeting is extremely valid. It sounds like a stressful situation that could bring up all kinds of heightened emotions. How are you feeling about it today? Anxiety and stress can affect your concentration which can make it hard for you to store new information in your memory. Tiredness can also affect how well you're able to concentrate. Are you able to speak to anyone about this meeting such as your side? That might help with clarifying what happened at the meeting.

    I hope you're able to be gentle with yourself over these next few days as you reflect on this meeting Ellie <3
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,293 Community Veteran
    @Katie @eylah the carers sent me in email a abc (who knows tht is) could it end in prison or civil action?, (idk wat tht is either) coz thts wat I read. The manager made stuff up about me n my mum which she came over to c I was alright. She's furious
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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,293 Community Veteran
    I've been gd is wat I herd frm other people
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  • eylaheylah Posts: 4,441 Community Veteran
    hru today ellie? just checking in with you <3.
    keep your face always toward the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you. 🤍
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,293 Community Veteran
    @eylah @Katie I was wondering is staying being scared of ppl got a name/is it a condition? Has it got a name?
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  • eylaheylah Posts: 4,441 Community Veteran
    ellie2000 wrote: »
    @eylah @Katie I was wondering is staying being scared of ppl got a name/is it a condition? Has it got a name?

    idk abt you but for me im scared of certain ppl bc of trauma and what they did to me has stuck with me and hasnt gone. i have complex ptsd bc of trauma so idk if thats the same for you but it could be bc of trauma you are scared of ppl im not a professional so idk <3.
    keep your face always toward the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you. 🤍
  • KatieKatie Moderator Posts: 70 Budding Regular
    ellie2000 wrote: »
    @eylah @Katie I was wondering is staying being scared of ppl got a name/is it a condition? Has it got a name?
    Hey @ellie2000 I'm a bit unsure as I'd need a bit more information to understand. Is there anyone you can speak to on your side about this such as the people involved in your review? There are something called "social phobias" which you can find more information about on the NHS website. But keep in mind that's just a guide and we're not in a position to diagnose! It might be worth talking to someone you trust or considering speaking to your GP for more information if you're talking about yourself.
    ellie2000 wrote: »
    @Katie @eylah the carers sent me in email a abc (who knows tht is) could it end in prison or civil action?, (idk wat tht is either) coz thts wat I read. The manager made stuff up about me n my mum which she came over to c I was alright. She's furious
    I also wanted to check how you are feeling today after this? I unfortunately cannot answer your question as I don't know anything about the email or what it entails. Would you be able to talk to your mum about it to help you understand? I'm sending you hugs Ellie I understand this is quite a difficult time for you and you have lots of unanswered questions <3 I hope the people around you can help answer them and support you.
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,293 Community Veteran
    @Katie @eylah I felt uncertain today so stayed in bed.
    Crazy mad insane
  • ebyrne556ebyrne556 Moderator Posts: 1,130 Wise Owl
    Hey @ellie2000 hope ur doing ok today sorry to hear yesterday wasnt great thinking of u and hope u got some time to rest yesterday <3
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  • eylaheylah Posts: 4,441 Community Veteran
    hi @ellie2000 hru today? i hear yesterday was hard for you but hru today? sending you hugs 🫂
    keep your face always toward the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you. 🤍
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